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Another missed miscarriage

post #1 of 38
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Hey everyone-

 

I hate writing these as much as I hate reading them. Needless to say, I didn't get good news at my appointment today. The doppler couldn't find a heartbeat and the ultrasound showed a baby that stopped growing around 7 1/2 weeks, which is when I lost my first babe. I plan on having a D&C on Wednesday since my body is obviously not good at letting go of pregnancies. 

 

At the moment I'm crying a lot, but I don't feel overly sad. I've been through this twice before, so it isn't a new pain, just another disappointment. I guess it's just weird in that I wasn't even sure if I wanted another baby and we weren't trying to have this one. I guess this pregnancy showed me that I actually want another baby, which is good. When I say good, I mean that it's good that I was able to come to a conclusion. I'm sure that my SO and I will start actually trying after all of this passes, so I'm sure I'll be back on these boards someday.

 

I wish all of you luck on your pregnancies!

post #2 of 38

i am so sorry. no words, just sorryhug2.gif

post #3 of 38

No! I was just thinking about you hoping your appointment today went well, this is just ... I'm so sorry. Lots of hugs.

post #4 of 38

I'm so so sorry for your loss. take very good care of yourself.

post #5 of 38

I'm not even sure what words can convey the sadness I feel for you. This must be so hard. Hugs to you, and I hope you find comfort, in some way, in your new realization that you would be happy growing your family. I wish you all the luck in the world with your next attempt.

post #6 of 38

I am so very sorry for you. candle.gifgrouphug.gif

post #7 of 38

I'm so sorry mama.  Peace and healing to you and your family.  candle.gif

post #8 of 38

Oh how heart breaking for you and your family. Take good care of yourself and I wish you the best on your future family.

post #9 of 38

Oh mama I am so sorry. Many hugs. I am glad that you were able to come to a decision but sorry that it will not be this little one. So sorry.

post #10 of 38

I'm so very very sorry.

post #11 of 38

im so sorry :(

post #12 of 38

I'm so sorry.

post #13 of 38

Sallierae - so, so sorry to hear it. I hope you hang in there.Hugs.

post #14 of 38

I'm so very sorry.

Glad to hear that you've come to a decision to keep trying after your D&C; that's when I got successfully pregnant with DS, so best wishes to you!

post #15 of 38

i'm sorry.candle.gif

post #16 of 38

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

post #17 of 38

I'm so sorry for your loss :(

post #18 of 38

So sorry!!!greensad.gif

post #19 of 38

sallyrae17, I'm so sorry you're going through this.  Peace to you and your family.

post #20 of 38

So sorry! hugs.

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