DS is 13 weeks and about 15 pounds. I'm wondering when we can put his legs out in the Ergo. We stopped using the infant insert because it made him scream like a banshee and he has pretty good head control. If I wear him in the Ergo with his legs out, he doesn't fuss, but when DH tries, he goes crazy. I think it hurts DH's feelings!
Is it OK for him to have his legs out/splayed this young? I haven't been able to find a consensus online. When did you go "legs out" with the Ergo?