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SaritaMarina 
So unless I tape the thermal straight to my mouth, I don't think I'll be too great at it..... Also, I tried tracking my cervical mucus. I was told (sorry if its TMI) that you just stick 1 finger inside, and then check what was left on it. Which, I was comfortable with. Then I find out, you need to squat, insert 2 fingers, and move them around REAL deep to find your cervix until you find something that resembles lips. I am absolutely NOT comfortable with that.
Therefor, I know I shouldn't, but I've based my prediction on home ovulation tests.... I have gotten some false reads to where the test came up neg on the second try, so to get 3 positives, I feel that theres a good chance?
Okay, here's the thing, OPK's are only going to tell you when you are gearing up to O. They cannot confirm that you actually did O. So if you get your 3 positives and did the IUI it could turn out that you didn't actually O then and ended up Oing several days later greatly decreasing your chances or missing it all together. The same thing is true of CF. It cannot confirm O. Temping is what you really need to do in order to actually know if you are timing the IUI's correctly. I wrote out a post for another thread a while back about how to chart. I know you know most of it, but some of it you may find is new information. For instance, internal CF checks are NOT necessary! In fact, all the studies that have been done on charting have been done with external observations only. See my post below to check your CF externally. I'm hoping once you read through it you might be inspired to try charting again b/c I really think it's your best bet. I used to leave my BBT out on my nightstand and once you're in the habit, it's really easy to remember roll over, grab it, temp, and then go about whatever you need/want to do. It might take you a bit, but maybe you could put a brightly colored sticky note on your lamp shade or make yourself a reminder that you stand up on your nightstand or maybe your partner could get in on it, too, and help remind you before you get out of bed. If you don't have a nightstand by your bed, you could tape something to the wall and put your BBT under your pillow. Just some thoughts...
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It's been told that sperm takes 24 hours to reach the egg. Frozen sperm usually die off within 24 hours. Fresh sperm can live up to 5 days within the tubes.
It's not that sperm takes 24 hours to reach they egg. Sperm only have 24 hours to reach the egg b/c after that, the egg is gone. Fresh sperm can live up to 5 days, but only in fertile CF.
Okay here's my charting post...
Start as soon as you can since the first day of red blood is cycle day 1. Pick up a copy of Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler at the library (or buy it). You don't need to read it cover to cover to get started, but it really is an excellent resource.
You can pick up a basal body thermometer (BBT) at your local drug store. Some are better than others. I prefer ones that take longer than 30 seconds (they seem more accurate to me) and can hold two temperatures in memory (this is especially handy when you wake up, temp, and go back to sleep- you can look at and record the temp later). The Walgreens thermometer gets generally bad reviews. BD gets good reviews.
When temping you want to focus on a few things: taking it at the same time each morning (within 30 minutes); taking it after a solid block of sleep (3 hours is usually recommended); and making sure that you don't get out of bed, sit up, drink water, or fall asleep before or while temping. So basically you just wake up, roll over, temp, and go back to sleep or get up.
Some women are really sensitive to changes in sleep patterns or ambient temperature (like if your room is hot one morning and not the next or you wake up snuggled under a warm blanket and the next are out of the covers). But other women find that they can see their pattern despite numerous night wakings, not getting a 3 hour block of sleep prior to temping, or environmental changes. Other things that can affect temp- pretty much the same things that can delay ovulation: travel, stress, diet changes, injury, illness, and strenuous exercise.
Next, cervical fluid (CF) is something you can observe throughout the day- whenever you feel it, whenever you see it (while wiping, on your panties), etc. Here is my general guide to CF:
Dry: you'll feel dry all day and there is nothing on your panties
Sticky: you'll generally feel dry and there will be a bit of staining- usually yellow- on your panties. It might be a bit crumbly or clumpy.
Creamy: generally you'll feel a little wet, lotiony in texture, could be slippery when you wipe, often it will stand up on your panties
Wet: you'll feel wet and your panties will likely be wet- maybe even soak through, may look like skim milk (I rarely get this)
Eggwhite: you might actually feel it slipping out of you throughout the day and it might fall out of you while using the bathroom, stretchy- it may stretch from you to the TP for several inches- and usually clear or yellow tinted, often quite profuse
Temp and CF are the two basic fertility signs you need to chart. There are other signs you can record like cervical position (CP), but it's not necessary unless your temps and CF are not showing a clear pattern.
So what you're going to see is a group of low temps from the start of AF, which is cycle day 1 (CD 1) until the day after ovulation (O) when you should see a spike in temp or steady climb to a higher group of temps. The days between O and AF are called your luteal phase (LP). Generally it is said that you need at least 10 days to sustain a pregnancy. The average length is 12-14 days. Your LP will not vary much- usually just by one or two days cycle to cycle. But your O day could vary considerably. So when you see O on your chart you can then predict when AF should show based on your average LP length. If you go 3 days past your longest LP length then that is an excellent sign of pregnancy. If you get 18 high temps after O that is 99% accurate- just like an HPT.
Likewise your CF will go from dry just after AF to sticky, to creamy, to EW as O approaches. You may or may not go through all the different types of CF prior to O or you could skip from dry to creamy or dry to EW. You might have many days of creamy and one or two of EW or you might have 3 or 4 days of EW with hardly any creamy. It all depends on the woman and that particular cycle. But after O you will dry up. It could be instantaneous- like the day of the spike you're dry. Or it could decrease slower- EW to creamy to stick to dry. But usually you will dry up within a few days and then may or may not experience a few more days of creamy or even wet/EW later in your LP, just prior to AF.
Anyway, that should get you started! Post if you have questions and use www.fertilityfriend.com to share your chart! Good luck!
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