If you have a child with multiple food allergies - when would you drop them off at a birthday party or similar and not stay?
Personally, I have no done this, but her father did. Left the birthday girl's mom some safe cookies (oreos) and her epipen and didn't stay. My dd is 4 and the birthday girl was 5, chances are most kids there were ages 3-6. The family is a great family. Personally, I don't feel this is safe and I think it is unfair to the family to have that responsibility of keeping my dd safe or knowing what to do if a reaction occurred.
I am in the process or writing a proposed provision for a custody order and I am wondering how I should address this type of situation. When is it ok? Was it ok for her dad to leave her and maybe I am just paranoid or something? What kind of guideline should I propose for this type of thing?
When is it ok to leave your child in the care of other people that are not at a school or day care, summer camp, etc where people are trained to deal with this?