Okay, here is my friend's reply: (she mentions the gender thing a couple of times because it is a big deal for me!)
I would recommend Dr. DeStefano or my mid-wives which are in his practice. Women's Reproductive Medicine. Avoid the lady Dr. Kirsch
In his office, but she is leaving in Jan, so it should be easy to avoid her.. Yes, he is a man, but he is pro-VBAC, and he is more natural minded than most other MD's because he has learned a lot from the mid-wives. Depending on the case, the mid-wives might take her, and he would be the back up. Plus, if you are his patient, you basically get him, not a practice of 5-9 docs. If she has to have a woman, she is probably out of luck, as all our groups in this area have male docs in the group, except that lady Dr. Kirsch. I wouldn't send a dog I hated to that woman, she's just not a safe practitioner.
I of course think Memorial is better than St Joe. All the other hospitals in the area (8 of them) send high risk moms and pregnancies to us, not St Joe. That's gotta say something. we have a higher level NICU, and a certified peri-natal high risk specialist, they do not.
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