My husband is driving me insane. He's been on the phone for 2 1/2 hours ordering an iphone, not even exaggerating. Before he got home from work I clearly asked him to help out tonight because my sinus headaches are very bad, the kids have been wearing on me more than usual, and I'm extremely tired today. You would think he'd help out every night, just naturally. So he comes home late after picking up groceries for his weekly potluck at work (doesn't buy anything for the house), tells me he helped with a sheet of homework for our daughter, and gets on the phone. It's like the more I need him to step up, the less he can. This is our third pregnancy and, without avail, we always end up blowing up at each other at some point during the end of the pregnancy/first year. I really want to keep my cool but I don't know how to get him to stop being a selfish jerk..... or is he? I really can't tell anymore. I work two jobs, do most of the cleaning, 87% of the cooking, 94% of the childcare, all pet care. He says I complain too much and I'm always telling him to do more. Sigh. I hate it. I really don't feel like he's such a slacker usually. Maybe he just can't handle my moods?
I know I'm hormonal, but there's not much I can do about it... Ugh, I don't think I even enjoy being around him ever anymore! What's happening to me?! (partial LOL) Is moving to my mom's for the rest of this pregnancy an acceptable option? haha. Moms are so helpful! Wth are dads good for again? (partial joke again)
Seriously though, any good links for keeping the peace during the hormones?