okay, who's finding out the sex and who's not? Why did you choose as you did?
I have 5 weeks to figure out if I want to know or not and I am completely TORN! Hubs wants to know and would be able to keep it secret from everyone. I would be fine with him knowing, but not fine if other people knew and I didn't. Although he would tease me. Since we have no baby clothes at all (despite having had 3 girls) we do need to get baby clothes and I really hate yellow baby clothes, but am fine with whites, reds, dark yellows, greens and generally bold fun colors, maybe I just hate pastels)
If we find out we will have one of those cake parties to announce it to everyone all at once, and that would be fun, but I keep imagining how cool it would be to not know, I have imagined the baby sliding out and then checking. ( I would totally punch someone if they announced it after baby was born if I waited all that time, but I am certain the Hubs and my awesome midwife wouldn't say a word.) and honestly I totally love the idea of leaving people hanging although I think I might make myself a shirt that says "No we aren't trying for a boy"
so just tell me why you chose what you did. I'm curious and maybe it will help me make a decision.