lilmomma-- mine's only wrinkly if I push on the skin (ie when I put lotion on). I'm assuming it'll get worse once I lose more of the belly though.
For wearing... none of my pre-pregnancy pants fit (that are not sweats or pj pants...) mostly due to my hips, but the thighs are too snug as well. I've taken all of my maternity pants out of the closet though, so I'm left iwth one pair of khakis, one pair of dress pants, and the jeans I'm wearing in that photo. I really only wear the jeans though, the other two I've only worn once each pp. If I'm going out somewhere 50% of the time it's those jeans, the other times are generally split between two pairs of Hollister sweats I have. I bought they at about 25 weeks pregnant, and they quickly have become my favorite comfy pants... but it's nice because they're presentable enough to wear out. If I'm at home, I'm in sweats or pjs.
For tops.... DD has reflux, so she pukes on everything. Between that, and trying to have easy access for nursing... I have about 2 or 3 basic soft t-shirts I wear, and then a few nursing/maternity type tops. I'm too self conscious about my remaining belly to really wear anything more form fitting, even if I didn't need the nursing access. Almost everything I wear out is black, are often loose, almost unofficially empire waists- theres no defined separation, but they're a lot more flowy on the bottom.
I can't wait until she's nursing less often (you know... months from now... lol...) and I can put on normal tops again. I miss my wardrobe