Did you let your 1st child be present for the delivery of the 2nd?
My dd is 4 and is a little sensitive. I've been trying to prepare her for 'the day'....telling her the sequence of events like first you will go to your friends house, then Grandma/Grandpa will pick you up, then take you to the hotel to play/swim, then when baby come out of momma you can come and see her.
Today she said she wants to see the baby come out of momma. Since we don't have pets/live on a farm, I have shown her video of cats/dogs having babies. Any one let older siblings watch and what was their and your experience? Do you think it's a good idea?