I think there was a thread in our previous DDc, but not sure. Some days i question how i am doing emotionally. i feel so exhausted (well, of course!) but also irritable towards DD. Taking care of a baby feels so tedious at times - and the crying gets to me after a while. Everything feels like a HUGE effort and i miss "down" time, fun time, etc. I am sad about the state of my relationship with DH- feels we are always arguing and that when i try to vent to him he takes it as Im "yelling at him" - which is very odd and annoying - im not venting at him, just sharing about my day. And Im too tired to deal with that crap right now. Does this sound like depression- or 'normal"?
I'm so exhausted right now that I feel very similar to you. When I express my frustration DH takes it as an attack on him and tells me he's sorry. I finally snapped at him for it and basically told him to shut up with the sorry comments.
I've had depression in the past, and this is very different for me. Right now its really just exhaustion and frustration stacking on top of each other. I do know from my previous experience though that it could easily start to slide into depression, so it is something I'm trying to keep watchful about.
Only you will know if this is becoming more than just exhaustion with you. It never hurts to talk to someone about it, and to make sure your physical & emotional needs are being met. You have to look after you before you can look after others properly.