I'm in Ontario and I see a mid-wife. Â My 20 week U/S found a small mass on my ovary and I was referred to an Obstetrician to ensure that it would not interfere with the birth and what the appropriate course of action should be. Â I saw the OB this week and he spent 30 seconds telling me to wait until baby was born, repeat the U/S and if necessary have the mass removed and 30 minutes telling me why I should not be planning to VBAC. Â I have all kinds of questions about his ethics on this one.
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First C-Section was for mild pre-eclampsia and a failed induction at 37 weeks. Â Obviously if the pre-eclampsia returns then we will reconsider our plans to VBAC but so far I am not showing any symptoms and I have a 70% chance that it will not recur. Â
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1) Â He told me repeatedly that the SOGC recommends that someone of my BMI (currently 35 at 32 weeks) is now a high risk pregnancy and therefore should not attempt to VBAC. Â I realize that different docs have different opinions but NOWHERE in the SOGC guidelines does it say that. Â He told me the reason is because I am at higher risk for diabetes, high blood pressure and macrosmonia. Â I said, yes, but I currently don't have any indication of any of those. Â Oddly enough none of those complications are contraindications to a VBAC according to the SOGC. Â I have a huge problem with him using his professional organization to lend credibility when he is not telling me what they recommend!
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2) Â After we didn't seem to be buying the high BMI thing (particularly because he used my pregnancy and not pre-pregnancy weight) we proceeded to tell me the baby was breech. Â Baby could be breech or not at this point but I believe there is time for it to turn. Â I told him it was good to know and we would confirm before delivery.
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I started counting part way through the number of times he told me that my BMI of 35 makes me morbidly obese and got to 8 times by the end of the appointment.
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I guess I just feel discouraged. Â Being told repeatedly that you are too fat to have a baby is painful. Â Particularly because I lost 45 pounds before getting pregnant to help avoid pre-eclampsia again. Â Our midwife would like us to have a hospital birth but will support a homebirth if things continue to go well but the more I encounter lying medical professionals like this one the more I want to stay away from the hospital. Â We are in a small community so if my care does need to be transferred to a doctor it will be back to my family doc and not to this guy. Â But now I need to meet with my family doc to find out what he makes of this guy's advice back to him just in case I do get transferred. Â
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Part of me wants to go on a low GI diet to make sure I don't gain any more weight. Â It seems a little crazy but I feel out of control on this one and want to be doing something! Â I have to have one more meeting with the local surgeon in case of an emergency repeat c-section who will recommend forgetting about the VBAC and just scheduling a C-Section. Â I have been big my whole life and I work hard to stay healthy and fit even when I can't hit the BMI targets. Â My confidence is so shaken right now. Â Any support or positive stories would be appreciated or any research around BMI and VBAC would be great. Â
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