ugh x wants kids to get there mmr...

[sweetstrongmom]

I don't know what to do. My x wants our kids to get there mmr. We live in Ny state. Don't I have rights as there Mom? Thanks!!!!

[kathymuggle]

How old are the kids?

Was X on board with non-vaxxing before the split?

Can you negotiate with him - and is there something he wants that you could yield on in exchange? Will he be willing to go delayed?

do you think he will do this behind your back - there might be a way to prepare the body for vax, so behind your back is not great.

what does the separation say wrt medical decisions?

[sweetstrongmom]

Thanks for the reply kathy!!! My kids are 8,6 and yes Hes always been a big supporter but now Hes not. He's a controlling man and his control in this is lil so now Hes fellung the need to have it back. And yes he might go behind my back Im sorry to say.

[kathymuggle]

Interesting.  If he has always supported not vaccinating, it might be in your favour.

Are medical decisions laid out in any document?

[sweetstrongmom]

No theres no medical decisions. He text me he was talking to my kids pedestrian and she said there has been a high case of come backs and she recommend them. I left her a message and going to call again today.