I know some people are concerned about this and won't want to discuss it, but I thought we're getting to the point where it's useful to start considering weight gain. Do you consider yourself (pre-pregnancy) to be underweight, average, overweight, or obese? How much do you consider safe gain for yourself? How much weight have you gained (and how many weeks are you)?
I ask because I'm overweight (currently verging on obese according to BMI, but without certain things...like a larger chest...I think really not so bad as my BMI would indicate) and trying to figure out how much is a safe weight gain, and what to do if I can't start gaining faster.
Last time I weighed myself pre-pregnancy (which was in March) I was 195, so very overweight, but during June and July working on cleaning out the house damage, etc I had lost a lot of weight and my first check during pregnancy I was down to 174. That was at about 6 weeks. Now at essentially 16 weeks I am still 174. My midwife says not to worry, but I guess with my lack of ability to eat I can't help but be a little concerned. I'm cramming in about 1800 calories a day on average, which I think is about 500 too low :p