My dh got mad at me recently and told me not to discuss my sadness or upset with anyone. But then tonight, when I tried to talk to him about how he is acting, turns out... HE is the one who is overwhelmed. I am not even overwhelmed. I am very upset about being abandoned by the OB and the way the pregnancy went because of the bad medical care. On the other hand, he is overwhelmed. He keeps talking about when the kids leave for college and how he cannot handle 18 yrs of this and how difficult he thinks our 2 yr old is. Honestly, our 2 yr old is very easy compared.
Any suggestions? He is the sort that thinks he does not need help and won't consider it.
edited: I should say..I am not overwhelmed with the baby...it is the other stuff that is so upsetting, not the actual baby. DH says he is having a hard time handling everything, the baby, our toddler, everything.
Edited by Lisa1970 - 10/16/11 at 9:31pm