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[Imissmyhusband]

Excuse me? If you are trying to advise this Lady, please make sure it is Advise. For your personal info; I did Drank, however; I blamed everything on him. I have learned the hard way, and needless to say I don't have a Husband anymore. So, before you suggest I seek help, we'll it's to late. The damage is already done. This is what I'm talking about. Allot of people jump to conclusion's? I stayed with my dearly departed Husband, because like I said. I drank also. It wasn't all his fault, but I made him believe it was. Sorry,I'm not flaming you, but it upsets me to see advise without knowing the person. That's all. And I'm sure you have you're own issues, as I did! Otherwise, you wouldn't be here.  This is personal to me, and I would appreciate little more sympathy; instead of saying you should have left or you need help also.

[*MamaJen*]

I would never, ever, ever tell a woman that she should stay with her violent and abusive husband because he might commit suicide if she left. I would, however, tell her that staying with an abusive husband will, at worst, put the lives of her and her children at risk.

[Wild Lupine]

Originally Posted by Imissmyhusband 

Excuse me? If you are trying to advise this Lady, please make sure it is Advise. For your personal info; I did Drank, however; I blamed everything on him. I have learned the hard way, and needless to say I don't have a Husband anymore. So, before you suggest I seek help, we'll it's to late. The damage is already done. This is what I'm talking about. Allot of people jump to conclusion's? I stayed with my dearly departed Husband, because like I said. I drank also. It wasn't all his fault, but I made him believe it was. Sorry,I'm not flaming you, but it upsets me to see advise without knowing the person. That's all. And I'm sure you have you're own issues, as I did! Otherwise, you wouldn't be here.  This is personal to me, and I would appreciate little more sympathy; instead of saying you should have left or you need help also.

 IMMH, if you want to talk about your divorce and experiences as a single mother, please start another thread. The OP is in a difficult situation and needs support; I'd hate to see this thread be sidetracked from that.

[DCMama01]

Um, I smell a troll (or an abusive husband posting).

Kay4, you are an amazing woman. After 17 years, you still have some fight in you. It's never too late to take control of your life. How are your kids doing?

[jaam]

Kay4 keep us posted when you have the time, we're here to support you. You're doing the right thing.