When DH and I first became Orthodox, we were instructed by our priest to refrain from "heavy" oils, which means mainly olive oil, on non-oil fast days. Since then we have encountered people who avoid all oil, margarine, salad dressing, etc. on non-oil days, and a lot of others who keep the olive oil rule. We follow the rule we were given at baptism, and there seems to be no disagreement between factions. It is a minor difference in practice.
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My priest once said that perhaps the reason I wasn't able to fast physically was because following rules is easy for me--it's breaking them that's difficult.
I've heard this before. A big part of fasting is accepting instructions to alter the fasting rules. Since obedience is so much a part of fasting, it can be more important to accept the dispensation than to follow the fast to the letter. I know people who have had a great struggle with this.
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