this is all starting to feel like a big attack on homebirth midwives to me. Â
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you know what bugs me is that MDs cause the unnecessary deaths and injuries of so many babies with their premature inductions and interventions and its considered collateral damage. Â They "did everything they could"... yeah and the "everything" is what caused all the problems in the first place. Â And dont get me started on the harm they do to women! Â
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And then you have midwives... if they make even one mis-step, everyone turns on them. Â One baby lost = end of their career. Â People think there is some text book that says "if this happens then do this..." Â there may be a text book but it isnt always right. Â The midwife has to make decision based on the best of her knowledge and abilities. Â Shes human. Â And you can ALWAYS find a doctor whose opinion will contradict a midwives.
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I don't know what happened with Evelyn but Im extremely suspicious of this whole thing, especially given that pretty much ALL our midwives are suddenly under attack. Â They may not run the tightest ship over there. But I suspect the incredibly strong anti-homebirth sentiment in this state may have something to do with it.
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Mortality stats (for moms and babies) should be public and the practitioners NAME was next to it. Â I bet Evelyn's is lower than any MD.
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I just cant picture this being a real case of Evelyn being negligent or something. Â She was very careful and concerned at my last birth. Â A lot went wrong at my birth and she handled each problem calmly and accurately.
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Its hard, even for moms who have had homebirths, to really trust the process. Â We have been raised being told doctors know best. Â I found myself second guessing the whole way. Â And if something went wrong, I would have probably gone to an MD for a second opinion and then tried to blame my midwife for the problem. Â People grieving often need someone to blame. Â I don't know if something like this happened, but certainly things like this happen all over the homebirth unfriendly country.
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This whole reminds me of... did anyone read Baby Catcher?
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