A nice joke usually lets people know that they are saying something silly and a bit rude. Maybe something like "No it's not twins, it's actually an entire litter.....of puppies...German Shepards I believe". Makes em' laugh and gets em to shut up. Nobody should ever say anything about a pregnant lady's appearance, unless it's "You look fantastic!".
Would it be bad if I was just a little.... rude (with a smile, of course)? - Page 2
This happens to me alot. I dont take offense. They are just making conversation. I probably do look big for my dates. Its my body type. I dont consider the implication of being 'fat', especially when pregnant, to be an insult. Its just a fact. You put on weight. Some women put on less weight, some women dont show their weight as much., We are all different. I like the way i am. For the most part, in my case anyway, people dont mean to insult you, and its not an insult to look bigger than they expect.