"I just want to hold the namnies while I nurse" is the new excuse for the squeezing etc.
we are very limited already- really she nurses only 2-3x per day. I have talked about the fact that she will someday not nurse but she isn't interested in discussing that yet. She is getting more comfortable with seeing my nursing the baby though, you can see she is not longer chomping at the bit to join in. Nap is on the way out for the older nurser, so with that goes one of the nursing sessions (the going to nap one).
She actually fell asleep NOT nursing the other day... this was after 45minutes+ nursing the first time, then another 10-15 minutes later, and her not sleeping and almost 10PM, so I was feeling really drained and irritated. I finally just kept saying "you have to wait a while for your turn" and she fussed a bit but rolled over and fell asleep. I would love to see her able to go to sleep without nursing- I know the day will come.