Tara and Laura
I am so very sorry for your losses.
Raven - well apparently since they aren't married, he has to go before a judge to make sure that both he and the mom agree that he is the father. If they both agree, they are done and he has paternity. If she disagrees, then they have to do a blood test. The birth cert means nothing apparently. This is based on the research I have been doing today. So he has the forms to get the appointeent with the judge. Stupid legal hoops.
Shannon - people are wacky about weddings. Stick to what you want and tell everyone to go jump in a lake. It got to the point with mine that I said, if you want it, you pay for it...I am happy with it the way it is. And either they would back off - or they would pay for it.
Anyway...against any better judgement that I had, I tested today. BFN...which i knew anyway. So af should be here tomorrow or friday. I am not that upset, I guess cause I have something other to focus on.
to all those who need them, and much