April 11-17 -- The One Thread - Page 7

[mama2m&m]

Re: cd 11

Originally posted by annakiss
Did you mean you can't control your period but you CAN control your weight? :LOL

:LOL yeah that's what it's supposed to be. must have been a freudean slip because i actually seem incapable of controlling my weight as well except that repeating this mantra to myself while running around the lake helped me complete the entire course!

now if it could only help me control my eating! one step at a time eh?

adina, i would think like the others said that if he's on the bc then he should have legal rights. i don't much about these subjects but i hope that he's able to find the legal help he needs to stake his rights.

[sweetpeasmom]

Hello again. Well looks like I'll be rejoining you all. I had a m/c. I'm doing ok. Well alright not really ok, but as good as you can expect. I know I will have another chance and just need to be patient, my time will come.

[puddingpop]

Laura. I'm so sorry for your loss.

[mama2m&m]

oh laura, , i'm so sorry.

[May-lily]

Laura,

I'm sorry about your loss. So many women go through this but I know it does not help much when you are going through it, other than it's at least better than talking to people who have no idea how intense it can be. Take the time you need, though I'm sure it's hard with a toddler.

Adina,

fingers still crossed...


I'm having a pretty crappy day...going from bad news to bad news at work (I work in a school)...it's spring and the kids are super highly strung and making poor choice after poor choice. We also had a super crappy drug prevention presentation froma local officer and the kids thought it was such a joke! Not good to make sure they stay away from substances. Thankfully I have an appt with my awesome therapist this pm, so I'll get to process. And I called dh at work this morning (very rare) to vent and he was supportive. Woo-hoo.....cd5 and back on tribulus, whatever that is!

[shannon0218]

cd 7, waiting to O

Wow, Marie, you guys need a canine officer to come in and do drug presentations. I do one with a local regular officer but we use Havoc as he is so safe with kids. We usually plant something on someone, or under their chair or in a backpack and have the dog search the auditorium. Then everyone oohs and awws when the dog finds the remains of a joint in a backpack umong 500 kids--the bad part is when he has to indicate on three or four others before he finds our plant--but it sure does send a message!!

I'm actually in a very pissy mood today. My MIL planned a wedding shower without checking the date with me or dh. I already have plans that day, they aren't real important and can be changed but I really should have been given that option. I mean this close to the wedding, does she not realize I may be kinda booked????
That and I'm just having so much trouble getting excited about the upcoming GIO fest. That and I had EWCM today which I think is too late to be dh and too early to be from ovulation, so who the hell knows.

[tarablesue]

I am back too

I woke this morning to gushing blood, bright red and some serious cramping... I was 7 weeks today.

I went to the doctor and the baby was gone, no longer in my uterus. My heart is broken , this was my 3rds pregnancy 1st m/c.

I have so much on my plate right now, the 2nd anniversary of my moms death just passed , and now this..: I know that you ladies are just what I need with your turkey basting, slumber parting, stories !!

I would like to be put on the list of those who need extra hugs , as TTC is offlimits for at least 2 cycles...boo hoo ! I really wanted a baby for Xmas!!!

[May-lily]

I hate wedding showers...I did not want one and my dh's "best friend" who was an ex that my mom thinks still loved him, planned a surprise one on a day I was planning to spend with my best friend, who was also officiating at the ceremony...anyway, I hated it, it was super cheesy (she has no taste) and then I had to be super grateful to not hurt her feelings!!! not to behave like a "princess" but is "our" day or wtf??? why do so many people insist on taking over?
my mom almost had a heart attack when we considered doing an all veggie reception and threatenend to withdraw her gift of paying for half! People get crazy around weddings! Stick to your guns. I did mine and it turned out awesome and everyone loved it and complimented us for doing it "our way" in spite of their previous comments.

I'd be worrried about a drug dog going nuts here..it's a high school!

[May-lily]

tarablesue...I was typing when you posted...I'm so sorry...lots of healing thoughts to you.

To everyone already pregnant, super sticky vibes, no offense but I dont want to see any more back here.

[mama2m&m]

tara to you too. what an epidemic here. i'm so very sorry and share your pain. take time to heal.

[shannon0218]

Tara and Laura, I'm so sorry
It is such a helpless feeling, we are told to trust our bodies and when they betray us it is just devastating.
Is there anything I (or any of us) can do?
love and hugs,
Shannon

[Ravenmoon]

Extra hugs and healing vibes for you ladies.I'm so sorry for your loss.

It amazes me how common miscarriages are.I always wonder how much the environment and the foods we eat play in this matter.My miscarriage happened while i was still nursing but i don't think that was it.

I would like to know why i can feel nauseous and yucky all day and tired but i can't get a positive test.I ovulated around the 5th of April and my period isn't due until the 23rd.I guess it is still too early?I would think if my horomones are surging causing the sickness i could get a good test.Although maybe i am just sick from something else.I hate waiting!

[DesireeH]

Oh no Tara, I am so sorry.

[chiromama]

Oh tara! I'm soooo sorry to see you back here.... I hope that our cyber and our humor will help you heal quickly. Please feel free to vent all you need to and cry to us whenever you feel the urge! That's what we're here for!

[DesireeH]

Laura, sorry for your loss as well.

[coleslaw]

Tara, I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending lots of healing thoughts your way.

[AdinaL]

Tara and Laura I am so very sorry for your losses.

Raven - well apparently since they aren't married, he has to go before a judge to make sure that both he and the mom agree that he is the father. If they both agree, they are done and he has paternity. If she disagrees, then they have to do a blood test. The birth cert means nothing apparently. This is based on the research I have been doing today. So he has the forms to get the appointeent with the judge. Stupid legal hoops.

Shannon - people are wacky about weddings. Stick to what you want and tell everyone to go jump in a lake. It got to the point with mine that I said, if you want it, you pay for it...I am happy with it the way it is. And either they would back off - or they would pay for it.

Anyway...against any better judgement that I had, I tested today. BFN...which i knew anyway. So af should be here tomorrow or friday. I am not that upset, I guess cause I have something other to focus on.

to all those who need them, and much and to all!

[Ravenmoon]

well i am rooting for him.If she had him sigh the certificate you would think that means that she agrees :

I'm sorry for your BFN though.Hugs.

[chiromama]

cd16 3 DPO - folks we have a coverline!

Laura... I'm so sorry to see you back here too! Ugh.. so many many mamas coming back this week.... we need a big

So i got my coverline today... now I just have to wait a week or so.... Ry's mom comes into town next thursday, and I'd love to be able to pick her up from the airport wearing a t-shirt that says "Breeder" (at first I thought "baby" but breeder is way more my style!) My boobs are sore, but they are always sore during my LP... I'm trying not to go crazy with the psychosomatic symptoms this time... but we shall see...

Alexis - this is for you... http://flash.bushrecall.org/ :LOL

Adina, you chart still looks soooooo good! I'm sorry you got a BFN, but I'm still KingHA for you!I'm so sorry to hear about your friends problems.... Give him a big hug from all of us!

Shannon - when it comes to weddings, I agree with Adina..... it's your f-ing day... no one can tell you what to do about it... tell them to ..... well, you know, I shouldn't use bad language here... :ignore

[sweetpeasmom]

I'm so sorry Tara it's just not fair

Thank you ladies for your kind words. I'm starting to feel worse cramps now and my bleeding is getting worse. I started passing clots and it's so sad. Waiting for my dh to get home, he's leaving early. They told me to go to the ER if the bleeding intensified and I had severe cramps. I'm hoping it just will lightend up soon.

This is my first m/c, I though I could handle it but it's just so sad. It just seems so unfair that those who don't want to be pregnant get pregnant. I take good care of my self. My health is good. I have lots of love to give but oh i don't know i'm just rambling now. It's been rainy and gloomey for days, just makes it worse.