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post #41 of 61

Goals for November
No spend/ budgeted days 7/25
30+ min crafting 5/25

Key
thumb.gif No spend/ budgeted
irked.gif Unbudgeted/ unnecessary spending
knit.gif 30+ min crafting

 

1. thumb.gif  ordered gifts for 2 birthdays, was thankfully already budgeted for. knit.gif

2. thumb.gif  ordered fabric for the kiddos matching Christmas pjs, $$ was budgeted.  knit.gif

3. thumb.gif knit.gif

4. thumb.gif

5. thumb.gif knit.gif

6. irked.gif overspent the food budget.  I think I need to go over the budget again for this, we seem to be consuming more food than I thought (my kids are eating me out of house and home!!!)

7. irked.gif it was DH's bday and we made a last minute to go to Red Lobster, wasn't in the plans, though, but we had lots of fun!

8. thumb.gif knit.gif

9. thumb.gif  ordered my yearly Mountain Rose Herbs order, $280, but some of it is for my mom.

post #42 of 61

 

Goals for this month:

1. No unbudgeted spending, post here every day.

2. Hand laundry twice this month.  Continuing indoor herb garden.

3.  Meal planning every week.  Last month was our first experiment with meal planning and we decided not to try to make it at all frugal (other than the decreased food waste and lack of impulse eating out); this month we're going to focus on cost containment.

4.  Six OT shifts this month, with extra takehome pay going to student loans.  Continue planned debt snowball.

5.  In honor of Thanksgiving, identify one thing to be grateful for each day!

 

Key:

orngbiggrin.gif No spend/Budgeted spending

greensad.gif Legitimate unbudgeted spending

bag.gif Bad spending

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11/1: orngbiggrin.gif No spend!  Worked extra OT shift last night.  Grateful for getting to snuggle with DS when I got home.

11/2:  orngbiggrin.gif No spend! Grateful for the wonderful ladies at our breastfeeding group.

11/3: orngbiggrin.gif Budgeted spending: $50 on new diaper covers to replace the ones being outgrown (it's pretty incredible how fast DS is growing).  Took shuttle to save gas money.  Landlord still hasn't turned on heat and won't return phone calls... the rumor is that the boiler is broken.  Meanwhile, we're making do with a couple of space heaters, but our electric bill is probably going to be sky high this month.  Part of me wants to call the Fair housing commission to report (especially given the fact that he's just blowing us off), but part of me wants to have a good relationship with the landlord... he hasn't raised rent in years, even though everything but electricity is included and energy prices have gone up so much.  Opinions?  Today grateful for a nice warm shuttlebus after walking there in the cold!

11/4:  orngbiggrin.gif  Budgeted spending: $5.50 for family lunch at food truck while doing everyone's doctors appointments today.  Just got electricity bill (counting winter storm part of the two space heater thing)... twice as much as this time last year!!! luckily I overbudgeted that, so we're still under budget, but still.    At least the heat for the building as finally been turned on!  Which is what I'm grateful for... a nice, cozy apartment!  Also, did hand laundry (phew!).

11/5 orngbiggrin.gif 7.75 on subway tokens (budgeted).  Grateful for the baby reminding me I have to slow down.

11/6 orngbiggrin.gif Budgeted grocery shoping.  Grateful for our new parish priest.

11/7  orngbiggrin.gif No spend!  Grateful for the wonderful ladies at work, who I can run ideas by and not worry about being shot down if they're still in process.

11/8  orngbiggrin.gif No spend! Grateful for our wonderful nanny, who dotes on my son so I don't have to worry when I'm away.

11/9: orngbiggrin.gif Not really sure how to code this, but DH forgot his lunch (which I also forgot to pack... jeez!), so I walked the baby down to him at work at we bought lunch together.  We used our designated pocket money for the lunch, so it was "in budget", but now we don't have much in the way of pocket money left.  Pocket money is a new category in our budget, and I think it tempts us to spend.  I guess as long as it stops once we're done with it (it's pretty nominal and was meant to catch things like 'I need an afternoon snack' or an extra cup of coffee some odd morning).  Anyway, then I took a gratuitous trip downtown for confession and adoration (I say gratuitous because we have perpetual adoration at our parish, and I could always just go to confession here... I just kinda had the 'lets go downtown' bug) and spent more on the subway tokens.  Not a banner day!  Clearly we need to refocus.  Grateful for being able to work from home so much so I can be around DS for all but a few hours a week.

11/10  orngbiggrin.gif No spend!  Grateful for having wonderful people who take care of DS when I can't be there.

11/11  bag.gif  Totally fell off the horse.  Went to the thrift store and the fabric store, and spent way more than I had planned.  Sigh.  I guess I'll have to rework the budget for the rest of the month.  Grateful for the wonderful thrift store we went to... spent more than planned, but saved a lot over retail!

 
 

Oh, and I was thinking more about Hiroko's question.  I realized we actually save a lot of money by making our own beverages.  We roast our own coffee, which allows us to buy green beans in bulk (they last over a year with no decrease in flavor, unlike already roasted coffee).  It probably wouldn't save money over the cheapest available discount coffee, but if you like coffee and are spending a lot on it, this can really help -- it's so good I don't go to Starbucks or whatever because I like my coffee so much better.  We brew our own beer -- again, not a savings over Budweiser, but over pretty much any non-discount beer a real savings.  And again, I like the craftsmanly aspect to it.  It's also fun to do with friends (we have a potluck on bottling days), reduces the amount of waste and packaging (bottles are all reused), etc.  Finally, we make "juice water", which is basically water with a touch of juice (lemon, cranberry).  That saves a ton of money over soda and juice at full strength.

 

Best,

Anka

 


Edited by AnkaJones - 11/12/11 at 7:26pm
post #43 of 61

 

Rough day yesterday.  Spent several hours in the hospital with pre-term labor.  All is okay, just tired.  After many hours and no food at the hospital, dh and I went out for lunch and he stopped for some beer for the house.  Poor guy was stressed to the limit.  

 

Stopped to pick up a scrip for meds this morning, so I lost my no-spend for the day again.  I will need to spend some cash soon.  If yesterday was any indicator, it looks like we may have a baby sooner than expected.  I need to pick up some diapers for the first few weeks, a couple of receiving blankets and wash cloths.  I haven't bought any nursing bras yet either, so I need to get on that.  I am still making decisions on cloth diapers as well.  Ack!  I need to get my bum in gear!

 

 

 

Nov 1 -- no spend

Nov 2 -- 10.00 kids lunch money,  6.58 milk

Nov 3 -- 50.00 school donation

Nov 4 -- 104.42 groceries

Nov 5 -- 66.01 household supplies

Nov 6 -- 31.86 birthday gift

Nov 7 -- no spend  

Nov 8 -- no spend
Nov 9 -- no spend

Nov 10 -- 20.36 lunch, 16.34 beer

Nov 11 -- 10.00 meds

Nov 12

Nov 13

Nov 14

Nov 15

Nov 16

 

 

 

Goals for November

 

pay off cc #1 -- done

pay large bill to plumber -- waiting for bill

any extra to cc #2 

grocery money -- $100 per week

post #44 of 61

Ugh! Ruthiegirl, that's rough.  Be gentle with yourself -- the tail end of pregnancy is really rough even if you're not having preterm labor, but preterm labor can send you right over the  edge as far as stress goes.  So, don't get your bum in gear.  REST.  RELAX.  STAY OUT OF LABOR.  Do the minimum you need to do to be ready for a baby, and let the rest go until you need to.  The store is always open.

 

Anka

post #45 of 61

I'm pretty angry today.  Even though I paid of Sallie Mae and the account balance on the website registered $0 owed, they went ahead and debited my bank account yesterday, throwing us into overdraft.  I do have OD protection, but it really jacked up my budget for this pay period.  I called them and they're going to refund my account, but I don't know when I'll get my money back.  irked.gif

 

thumb.gif = no-spend day

smile.gif = budgeted spending

irked.gif = not in budget, but necessary

bag.gif = frivolous spending

 

11/01 - smile.gif  splurged on Starbucks, but money came from "entertainment and eating out" budget, cooked dinner

11/02 - smile.gif  DH got a "snack" at Popeye's chicken, leftovers for dinner

11/03 - smile.gif  going grocery shopping, planned meals for the next week.  Will cook tonight.  bag.gif used cell phones on ebay. Also bought hat and gloves from DS and bra for me.  May end up being free, because my mom had Kohl's cash and a coupon, and she mentioned not having to pay her back.

11/04 - smile.gif  Payday!  I paid off Sallie Mae this morning, so all our debt is finally gone!!!  Date night!

11/05 - smile.gif  $4 for lunch at work.  I brought food, but ended up being hungrier than expected.

11/06 - thumb.gif

11/07 - irked.gif $300 for repairs to DSD's car.  She's paying us back, but on a monthly plan.

11/08 - smile.gif  Another Starbucks because I didn't have time to make myself coffee before I left for work

11/09 - irked.gif New wheel for DSD's car, because it sat on a flat in the garage and damaged the rim

11/10 - smile.gif lunch out at work. 

11/11 -

11/11 -

post #46 of 61


 

Quote:
Originally Posted by AnkaJones View Post

Ugh! Ruthiegirl, that's rough.  Be gentle with yourself -- the tail end of pregnancy is really rough even if you're not having preterm labor, but preterm labor can send you right over the  edge as far as stress goes.  So, don't get your bum in gear.  REST.  RELAX.  STAY OUT OF LABOR.  Do the minimum you need to do to be ready for a baby, and let the rest go until you need to.  The store is always open.

 

Anka



Thank you so much for these kind words.  You have echoed what my midwife and husband have both been saying to me over the past 2 days.  I am taking things very easy.  I am doing most everything from the comfort of my couch or bed right now.  Ordered bras online and made a list for dh.  I really do feel calm and as relaxed as I can be.  This baby really needs 3 more weeks  in utero, so I am very cautious and careful.  

 

Thanks again. 

post #47 of 61

 

Monday,   good news and bad news.   Good news is that I am still pregnant!  I kept close to the house this weekend and was very mellow.  The bad news is that dh was in charge of all of the shopping, so now our budget is toast.   He was super supportive and fantastic all weekend and made it very easy for me to rest and take it easy.  We have extra cash in savings, so no money went on our last cc and I adore him for being so terrific while I am feeling so tired and achey.  

 

Still need to update the budget as best as I can. 

 

 

Nov 1 -- no spend

Nov 2 -- 10.00 kids lunch money,  6.58 milk

Nov 3 -- 50.00 school donation

Nov 4 -- 104.42 groceries

Nov 5 -- 66.01 household supplies

Nov 6 -- 31.86 birthday gift

Nov 7 -- no spend  

Nov 8 -- no spend
Nov 9 -- no spend

Nov 10 -- 20.36 lunch, 16.34 beer

Nov 11 -- 10.00 meds

Nov 12 -- $$

Nov 13 -- $$

Nov 14 -- 14.00 for school holiday meal

Nov 15

Nov 16

 

 

 

Goals for November

 

pay off cc #1 -- done

pay large bill to plumber -- waiting for bill

any extra to cc #2 

grocery money -- $100 per week

post #48 of 61

Key:

 

orngbiggrin.gif No spend/Budgeted spending

greensad.gif Legitimate unbudgeted spending

bag.gif Bad spending

----

11/1: orngbiggrin.gif No spend!  Worked extra OT shift last night.  Grateful for getting to snuggle with DS when I got home.

11/2:  orngbiggrin.gif No spend! Grateful for the wonderful ladies at our breastfeeding group.

11/3: orngbiggrin.gif Budgeted spending: $50 on new diaper covers to replace the ones being outgrown (it's pretty incredible how fast DS is growing).  Took shuttle to save gas money.  Landlord still hasn't turned on heat and won't return phone calls... the rumor is that the boiler is broken.  Meanwhile, we're making do with a couple of space heaters, but our electric bill is probably going to be sky high this month.  Part of me wants to call the Fair housing commission to report (especially given the fact that he's just blowing us off), but part of me wants to have a good relationship with the landlord... he hasn't raised rent in years, even though everything but electricity is included and energy prices have gone up so much.  Opinions?  Today grateful for a nice warm shuttlebus after walking there in the cold!

11/4:  orngbiggrin.gif  Budgeted spending: $5.50 for family lunch at food truck while doing everyone's doctors appointments today.  Just got electricity bill (counting winter storm part of the two space heater thing)... twice as much as this time last year!!! luckily I overbudgeted that, so we're still under budget, but still.    At least the heat for the building as finally been turned on!  Which is what I'm grateful for... a nice, cozy apartment!  Also, did hand laundry (phew!).

11/5 orngbiggrin.gif 7.75 on subway tokens (budgeted).  Grateful for the baby reminding me I have to slow down.

11/6 orngbiggrin.gif Budgeted grocery shoping.  Grateful for our new parish priest.

11/7  orngbiggrin.gif No spend!  Grateful for the wonderful ladies at work, who I can run ideas by and not worry about being shot down if they're still in process.

11/8  orngbiggrin.gif No spend! Grateful for our wonderful nanny, who dotes on my son so I don't have to worry when I'm away.

11/9: orngbiggrin.gif Not really sure how to code this, but DH forgot his lunch (which I also forgot to pack... jeez!), so I walked the baby down to him at work at we bought lunch together.  We used our designated pocket money for the lunch, so it was "in budget", but now we don't have much in the way of pocket money left.  Pocket money is a new category in our budget, and I think it tempts us to spend.  I guess as long as it stops once we're done with it (it's pretty nominal and was meant to catch things like 'I need an afternoon snack' or an extra cup of coffee some odd morning).  Anyway, then I took a gratuitous trip downtown for confession and adoration (I say gratuitous because we have perpetual adoration at our parish, and I could always just go to confession here... I just kinda had the 'lets go downtown' bug) and spent more on the subway tokens.  Not a banner day!  Clearly we need to refocus.  Grateful for being able to work from home so much so I can be around DS for all but a few hours a week.

11/10  orngbiggrin.gif No spend!  Grateful for having wonderful people who take care of DS when I can't be there.

11/11  bag.gif  Totally fell off the horse.  Went to the thrift store and the fabric store, and spent way more than I had planned.  Sigh.  I guess I'll have to rework the budget for the rest of the month.  Grateful for the wonderful thrift store we went to... spent more than planned, but saved a lot over retail!

11/12 orngbiggrin.gif No spend! Managed to completely rework the budget so we're back on track, although the rest of the month will be tight.  Grateful for being able to talk about these things with DH in such an easy, open way.

11/13 orngbiggrin.gif Budgeted minimal grocery expenditures.  Grateful for breakfast in bed.

11/14 orngbiggrin.gif No spend! [well, on my end.  DH is taking ab usiness trip, and while it'll all be reimbursed it's shocking the way money flies out of our account on these trips.]  Worked OT last night, which will go to debt payment.  Grateful for a nice warm bed with snuggles from DS when I got home.

11/14 orngbiggrin.gif $5 on groceries (budgeted).
11/15 orngbiggrin.gif No spend! 
11/16 orngbiggrin.gif No spend! 
11/17 orngbiggrin.gif Budgeted dinner out
11/18 orngbiggrin.gif Budgeted grocery shopping at the new dented can place in our neighborhood -- spent half as much as usual for weekly groceries, even though I bought a lot of pantry/freezer stuff.  Geez, this place is really going to help my budget! 
11/19 orngbiggrin.gif Budgeted grocery shopping
11/20 orngbiggrin.gif No spend! OT shift tonight, procedes to go to debt.

11/21 orngbiggrin.gif No spend!

11/22 orngbiggrin.gif Budgeted grocery shopping

Edited by AnkaJones - 11/23/11 at 5:56am
post #49 of 61

 

11/1 - no spend!  

11/2 - no spend

11/3 - dh spent $5 on lunch and bought cider and doughnuts for $10  I am taking it out of our grocery budget

11/4 - $15 on fast food because we were on the road and I didn't plan well enough.  $12 at liquor store.  Both were budgeted as "traveling money". lol

11/5 - $14 at the bookstore on some supplies we wanted - also budgeted.  $21 on dd's birthday dinner - budgeted.  $54 at asian grocery store (out of grocery budget)

11/6 - gas for the car $44 (That put our traveling budget over by $6)   Groceries - $24 (now our grocery budget is over by $5)

11/7 - no spend

11/8 - no spend

11/9 - no spend

11/10 - no spend

11/11 - dinner out with a friend  $20.  oops.

11/12 - no spend

11/13 - $6 on groceries

11/14 - no spend 

post #50 of 61

Love this--esp. during the holidays when it is so easy to spend too much!  This thread is very motivating!!

post #51 of 61

Phew.  Just walked through the Macy's downtown, which is in full holdiay form, without spending a dime.  Mainly, to be honest, so I could post "no spend" on this page.  I shudder to think what I would have done without you ladies.  There are just so many "deals".  Granted, on nothing I need, but deals nonetheless.

 

Anka

post #52 of 61

DH lost his job yesterday morning. We knew it was probably coming since Saturday. We figured out finances and (stupid us, for not checking this before) as long as he makes minimum wage locally, he'll be bringing home more money then driving 50 min each way making "more" at his old job.

 

Yay, him, he put in 20 applications in 24 hours, and already got an offer. I asked him how much they paid - he forgot to ask! He's still going to "look" for a better job, but at least he has something. Anything is better at this point.

post #53 of 61

If you apply for unemployment and then accept a job making less, you can still get partial payments, which should lengthen the time you are eligible to receive it. 

 

 

post #54 of 61
Hi! I'm a mama to a toddler and married to a grad student who also works full time. I work as a doula and birth assistant and am expecting our second next summer.

My financial goals: I'm not sure... I want to save for a swing set for DS to help keep him occupied once baby is here, and a small remodel project we'll be doing in December/January as well as some new baby things and a greater store of foods. I would also like to save for vacation next winter.

I want to spend no money on "extras" the remainder of the month (I can handle 3 days I hope!) then I want to continue in December and budget better our spending.

I also want to do more crafty things, and organize more. This will keep me home and not out buying stuff. And I'll get the "new stuff" satisfaction!




Doula mama to my nursing toddler Noah
post #55 of 61

I did our bills today. Now I'm depressed. I just feel like we keep plugging along and never get anywhere.

 

DH got fired from his job. He starts his new one tomorrow. But that's a whole week unpaid. On top of everything else.

 

We have bills and bills, and medical bills. We are supposed to take a trip out to DH's parents - it'll cost us $2000! How are we supposed to save up for that when we don't have enough for our BILLS!?!?

 

Sorry to be such a downer, but I am just so... sad about this.

post #56 of 61

hug2.gif

 

Sorry that all of this is happening to you.  The feeling like you are spinning your wheels is really discouraging.  And not being able to afford a trip to visit family is just plain depressing -- it's not being able to get to your support network right when you most need it.

 

Anka

post #57 of 61

Is there a NoSpend December thread? Or is it just not possible not to spend during this season? Will this be back in january? I need to get back on the wagon. It's been a really, really long time since I tracked my spending and I really need to get there.

post #58 of 61

I'm up for  No spend January 2012!

post #59 of 61

Yeah, I thought about this at the beginning of the month... and realized I couldn't pull off a No Spend December  bag.gif

Heck, I'm overbudget on just about every gift (not by a lot, but a couple dollars here and a couple there add up... and it's not like I went under on anyone's, you know?)

 

Totally up for a January thread, though.  Probably need the January thread just like I need my January diet.

 

Anka

post #60 of 61

I got a promotion... and a raise (a small one, but still).

 

DH got the other job, which pays a bit more and is closer (double-money savings).

 

I'm feeling so much better about life and money.

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