Hi "ya'll" haha as a Yankee i love that!!!
Indie- i am willing to bet a case of FRER that you are NOT menopausal but having a hormonal imbalance that mimics meopausal symptoms. It could be cortisol levels- your adrenal glands(atop kidneys) can mimic PCOS symptoms without the polycystic ovaries and that it is responsible for your infertility and symptoms. I'm old enough to be your....big sister...haha and I am sure my symptoms are similar- hence the metformen- i HAVE had a symptom reduction since taking it- but that I am not menopausal. Family history is also important- when did your mom- grandmothers- hit menopause? Both of my grandmothers had healthy surprise pregnancies in their early 40's. I just hope you have a good Doc, nurse office team experience. Love your eggs! They can hear you.
@cbaa- isn't it awful when you do it all just right and still BFN. I just hope your wrong...but i know the feeling. I can at least blame it on "oh well i must have O'd on the left" Sometimes i google positive FRER's just so i can see they actualy do have two lines. They are so so so white- bleak white- I've done a gazillion urine tests and not just my own. Usualy a smear like that on second try is a bfp. mine was just a smear :-(....my motto for the week...sometimes a smear is just a smear....boy was i warm inside and excited for about 7 hours...wouldn't it be lovely.
AFM: cd2 blah. I am getting down because of the big picture of the difference in our life as a "family" more- vs. our current situation. I am not sure it will work out in it's current flow. DH is too work obsessed. He doesn't get the fullness of life. I am too far from family my other kids- ect. and the way of life that fulfills me. It leaves me in a meant to be quandry....I am probably doing nothing different this cycle. I like to give everything two chances as i figure one of the months will hit the open side. I am going to talk to DH about RE tonight. ugh- it won't go well i figure...his line is- it won't happen because i'm trying too hard...I had a lot of R side cramping prior to AF. I am worried about that tube. I shouldn't repeat HSG until April...hmmm.
gtree, stasi, msdolphin, pitchounette....? hope all is well.