Two vaginal births in hospital.
The first was a high risk situation due to possible complications to the baby identified during the pregnancy. I was induced at full term and there was a full NICU team standing by. However, I negotiated the date of the induction (we did it a week later than originally proposed by the docs, because of my preferences) and if I had declined it and insisted on proceeding naturally and wait for me to go into labour naturally, my wishes would have been respected. Given the possible interventions that my baby might have needed immediately after delivery, I preferred to pick the date. I didn't want weekend shift coverage, on-call staff etc. dealing with my newborn. Every step was discussed with me in the weeks before birth and various options were explored - and Caesarian was never raised by either my OB, FP, the NICU docs or anyone else on the medical team. I did ask for an epidural, labour proceeded for 12 hours before the OB stepped in because the baby was posterior and after hours of pushing while he was crowning but getting nowhere, I agreed to some help.
The second was a natural vaginal birth in hospital, no epidural and no interventions.
I've been lurking in the thread requesting a forum to discuss Caesarian births. I'm a little uncertain about contributing there because I didn't have a Caesarian and I don't participate in the birthing fora because my dc were quite a bit older when I first started at MDC. I was surprised to find out that there is no forum to discuss Caesarians or that there's a question whether such a forum belongs here or would be beneficial. It seems obvious that all aspects of birthing should have a place at a site purported to be about mothering. I understand the strong emotions attached to the process but that shouldn't preclude discussion.
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