my partner had our baby on the 2nd. she had to have an emergency c-section and I was not allowed in the room- I'm with my partner's boyfriend, we are poly- since the boyfriend went in. that was very devastating and traumatic for me, not being able to be there when my child was born. then, finally, he came and got me and they had me in the ER with my girlfriend and the baby as they were stitching her up. our little Jasper is the sweetest baby and I couldn't be happier.
getting to the matter of my subject, I am told that 'other mothers' have harder times bonding and having the maternal instinct. and so far, it's been a bit true for me. is there anyone who could help?