"Any idiot can teach an intermediate student, but it takes an expert to teach a beginner."
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THIS!
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I'm a professional piano teacher and I can certainly vouch for all the students I've had to UN-train from their previous self-teaching or, even worse, BAD teaching from teachers who thought "I'm no expert but I could teach a beginner." Â
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My son is one of those who can intuitively play almost anything. Â So from my experience with watching him pick things up on his own and with lessons, I would say that guitar -- not *classical* guitar, but folk and rock guitar -- is pretty easy to pick up from videos and books. Â And there are a TON of great instructional videos on youtube for guitar stuff.
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Drums are also not too bad. Â You could not do it with ONLY a book, because you'd have no way to gauge if you're actually accomplishing the rhythm patterns correctly. Â My son used some play-along CD's which were very effective. Â He did recently hit a 'wall' where he can't really progress much more on his own, so now he is taking lessons. Â The technical elements of proper drum playing are not as complex as, say, the violin, so there isn't really a lot he has to 'unlearn' - it's just refining and making some adjustments and corrections.
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Wind instruments like sax, flute, etc, also really need a coach to get things started. Â You have to be VERY lucky to just stumble across the right way to blow, it's not easily picked up from written descriptions. Â Once you've got a foundation, you can progress on your own for a good while, though.
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The recorder, however, is pretty easily picked up without professional teaching. Â That's why it's so popular as a beginner instrument in schools, it's not too difficult to play or to learn or to teach. Â In fact there are some pretty decent 'teach your child recorder' programs specifically for homeschoolers.
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Ukelele is also not too tricky, has lots of free online resources, and doesn't need lots of coaching to get to a basic level of competence.
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And of course, as mentioned above - choral singing is a wonderful option too. Â And it's cheaper since you don't have to rent or buy ANY instruments at all. Â :)
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If you're really set on something like piano, violin, or many wind instruments, though, I really advise to get a qualified teacher, at LEAST until they have some basic competencies and won't be spending years reinforcing bad habits (which also seriously limit progress AND enjoyment!) Â If not a private teacher, then some kind of group program is often available - it's better than nothing.
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Yes, it can be pricey, but to me it's like many sports. Â If someone wants to do gymnastics, or ballet, or speed skating, you don't just set up a high bar or a barre or an oval rink in your backyard and say "okay, here's a video, now go figure it out." Â Things like that need *physical* coaching. Â I'm all for the independence and self-learning of homeschooling -- but some things just need coaches, IMO. Â Many basketball players are largely self-taught, but you don't see many self-taught ballerinas.
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Oh, there are also some excellent *general music* curricula out there -- with history and appreciation and all that, without the performance aspect, if that's at all of interest to you. Â But yeah, if coaching-needed instruments are just not financially feasible, then stick with things like recorder, ukelele, guitar, drums are probably okay, and choral singing. Â That's my opinion, anyway. Â :)
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