This is our 3rd dc and I'm trying to plan a better babymoon this time (had none the second time) and had a pretty good one the first time. I'd like to have 2 solid weeks of laying around in bed, nursing the baby and snuggling w/ my family. Then 3 weeks of a gentle transition to full time mom again :) I've thought about hiring a post-partum doula but thinking mabye not. DH will have 2 weeks off but in the past he's not much help. I do have a great like-minded mama community here in my area (thank goodness!). And my mom lives in the same neighborhood.
There are 3 things which are a priority: taking care of the older children (will be 8 & 3.5 yrs old, homeschooled), food already prepared and a somewhat tidy house (for my zen, not the family's). I will freeze some meals ahead of time. And a meal train will probably be set up at my mother blessing and after the birth. I've decided to look into someone to come and clean for the first couple months after the birth.
So, if you had a wonderful babymoon, what did you do/what was done to make it so? Especially if this was your 2nd, 3rd etc baby.