So much going on.
Katico - so glad your dh recognizes how awesome you are. I must admit I am nervous to leave dh with both littles - I know he would struggle with it. For your migraine - have you tried alleve? It's something I save for only the worst of the worst but it really works for me when nothing else will.
mainebirdgirl - we just had a monster cold go through this house (actually dh is STILL struggling with it) & dd was barely affected. I found the same thing with ds. Bfing really does seem to help them.
saoirse - I am totally impressed with you doing a back carry. I would LOVE to get dd on my back 'cause quite frankly I find it so awkward to actually do anything with her on my front. What kind of wrap is that?
rosemary - I'm so glad everyone is ok. That must have been scary. Do you need to replace your carseat?
not_telling - the letdown sure can be weird. Some of the strangest things will set me off sometimes but it also kind of handy. When I would pump for ds all I had to do was look at him or even think about him & WOOSH!
leiahs - oh my - 4 kids out of the house on time! I bow to you!!! Amazing.
afm - I still very much want more babies but I am making major notes to myself that next time we most definitely need to be more organized with a little support in the first few weeks 'cause this has just not worked out well this time. Dh starts paternity leave when dd is 6 weeks (which is just kind of late) & my Mom whom I normally see regularly has been almost completely out of contact. I'm just so darn grumpy & overwhelmed all the time. Mostly I am just really lacking help with housekeeping (the washing machine being broken really doesn't help either).