We'll be leaving in a week and a half for NY for a week to visit my family and a few friends. We don't vaccinate. Our son is 7 months, has no siblings, we live out in the boonies with not much contact with anyone. So our son really hasn't been exposed to many germs in the outside world, though I do let him touch whatever he wants.
Chances are one of my friends will have a newborn. I believe in giving newborns as much space as possible with no introduced germs. Assuming she's up for a visit, should I warn her beforehand he isn't vax'd so they can decide how comfortable they will be with our son being around their other year-old daughter and newborn girl, (or not around them even)? That would be the most courteous thing to do.
I'd LIKE for our son to play with their older daughter and have a playmate for the first time, but I know the chances of that may be slim. I'm not going to be selfish.