Hi all ,
I’ve finally gotten around to personals so I might be going back a bit! I just wanted to say thanks for being here guys . U really help when I’m feeling blue. So here we go:
Blue: I’d defiantly love a crystal ball! It’s so hard not knowing if we’ll get anything out of this, if we could just be promised a result at the end it would be worth it! I have to think that I’m doing this to be in the casino so to speak, I’d love the result but I have to do this so I can enjoy the hope of a bpf even if I can’t guarantee the result . Good luck with the “go big and go home!” Glad it wasn’t an ectopic. I’m afraid I don’t know anything about the tests. I’m on another website called fertility friend and some of the ladies there have a lot of info on immune issues in fertility.
Julieven: I didn’t see you already had a little one that makes it a whole different decision. I hope you carry on being happy the three of you or that you get a free baby!
Vegan: Thanks for thinking of re panic attack, it was pretty scary but I knew that’s what it was so I just let it pass. If I can’t persuade my pct to pay for my IVF I’ll have to choose a clinic. In the end though I think I still with my clinic that’s about an hour away (by bus). It’s difficult for me to choose because this clinic has been only been open a year so they don’t have stats with the hefa or live birth rates so it’s hard to compare to other clinics. But I just can’t face travelling to far. And it’s more complicated for me as I don’t have a partner and would need a friend or in-law to come with me for ET and I don’t want to drag them too far. It’s interesting everyone talking about no.s of embryos transferred. In the UK under 40’s can only have one embie transferred and over 40’s 3 in exceptional circumstances. The HEFA is really leaning on clinics to reduce their multiple birth rates. Good luck with your free baby attempt!
Montesossorf: Welcome and good luck!
Rcr: Hope you had a good travel. Thanks for circle and bloom info, I emailed you.
Mole: Hi Mole, I’m a vegan too! Unfortunately I haven’t done any research on vegan meds I was hoping to get away without them. Glad things are moving forwards for you.
Aura: Well done to your donor! How are you? Hope your feeling better. I’ve spent five years temping! You take your temp every morning at the same time before getting out of bed. Taking charge of your fertility (book) of fertility friend (website) can help.
Renvanoo: In the UK employers have to look after your health and the health of your unborn if you notify them there is one, and that includes stress. So your colleague might be right about letting work no. Sorry to hear about that horrid OB hope you don’t have to see them again. Congratulation on your twins!
Debhourah: congratulations on you BPF!
Praying: Good luck with your iui
Laggie: Good luck with your transfer.
AFM: I'm finally feeling a little better. It helps that I've got my stiches out so I'm not in agony when I where clothes. I'm still feeling pretty washed out though. Three of the incisions are healing nicley but one still hurts and has started to smell. Do u think thats a problem? I've got to admit I was pretty upset about my tube. I had hoped to have a couple of cycles low tec without the drugs. And i had thought that if I ever remarried I could have free babies. Being a 30 year old infertile widow was never my plan. I've written to the NHS clinic and said I'm on the waiting list, I still me the crietea, when will you treat me? I'm hoping that if I assume they'll treat me and count me as being on the list from when dh was refered they'll agree! We'll see. I'm not happy about waiting a few weeks to hear from them but with so much money at stake it's worth it. I've got say I am a bit nervous about going into all this with no dh for emotional back up but I think I can do it. I had a nice chat with my MIL who was very supportive and said she'd come with me for EC. Can anyone help me get a bit of an idea what to expect? How often do people do blood tests and scan's while stimming. Do you know excatly what day ET and EC will be or is it variable?
Thanks all, I'm sorry to have to be officaly joining you but couldn't wish to do it with a nicer buch of women. Happy thanks giving to all the yanks!
Edited by Silverbird - 11/25/11 at 2:22pm