I'm sorry. Maybe I can cheer you up with a funny story.
Before my older dd (who is 20) left for Africa this summer my mother and I took her out to dinner to say good-bye. Midway through appetizers we were talking about younger dd and I let down. Well no big deal, right? I had pads on and a new nursing bra. Well, my pads had shifted and I had two long streaks of milk going down the front of my dark shirt. And mom and dd didn't tell me. I did end up sort of leaning forward and trying to get my napkin to stay up near my boobs without actually tucking it in my collar.
Live and learn, don't wear a new bra out to dinner!
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