I recall someone somewhere telling me about a thermometer that could be used for nfp, in which the thermometer kept track of your temps and charts and let you know if it was probably one of your fertile days. Is it the OvuTherm Sophia: http://www.craigmedical.com/Ovulation_comp.htm ? Or are there similar/better products out there? Has anyone used such a thing as a tool to avoid unwanted pregnancy while bfing? How about its ability to give you a heads up to ovulation if it should come before your first period after LAM ends?
I am leaning towards wanting to do nfp rather than get another IUD. Before we had DS, we had an IUD failure and a resultant miscarriage when the IUD was removed on the advice of my midwife upon learning of the failure (it was thought this would maximize the chances of complications or spontaneous miscarriage later on, but clearly the removal itself carried the risk of miscarriage, which was the unfortunate result in my case). It was an emotionally traumatizing experience, and we feel that the consequence of a nfp failure is way more easy to deal with than the consequence of an IUD failure (ie. we don't know if we want any more LO's but if we got pregnant again, assuming my LAM lasts at least as long as it did for my DD's, we would be o.k. with having another child when our DS is at least 2 or older, but going through what we went through with the IUD failure would be much more difficult). I thought of trying the hormonal instead of the copper IUD but I'm a little weirded out by the fact that my midwife says that some women don't even get their periods when on that IUD (which she touted as a benefit)... I don't know that I'd want not to have a period, because my period being late was really what tipped me off to the IUD failure in the past--how would you even know if you had an IUD failure if you didn't have a missed period to go by?? I think I'd be living in constant dread that the IUD wasn't working... Plus something about doing nfp just feels more natural to me and resonates with my life philosophy...
However, if we end up relying on nfp for birth control, I do want to maximize our chances of avoiding pregnancy for now. I have charted in the past and know the drill but sometimes it's so easy to "convince" yourself that, nah, it's o.k. just this one time--I don't think that was *really* fertile cm... and then you end up with another bun in the oven ;). I feel like one of these smart thermometers would be a good reality check for me, so any info you can share with me about them would be appreciated!







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