Hi Ladies! I spoke to the mw I'm going to use already. She said she'll see me at 9-10 weeks when we can hear the heart beat. Sounds good to me! Not much you can do during early pregnancy!
We found out gender with DD, but this time I've decided to wait to find out the gender at birth. DH isn't really interested in the whole labor and delivery thing. It just makes him squeemish so he is supportive, but not interested in seeing the baby come or catching it. So I hope I'll be able to catch her (her? I typed that not realizing it!!) myself, bring her (or him!) to my chest immediately and discover the gender myself. Although it sounds like I've already decided what the baby will be.
Thebyr I also enjoy warm drinks every now and then, but not plain coffee. I was at Starbucks yesterday and asked them to recommend a decaf, dairy free drink. They suggested a vanilla latte with soy. It was yummy! Also, my second pregnancy was a blighted ovum. My first pregnancy I didn't have ANY caffeine and did everything "right" and had a m/c. So, the second pregnancy I decided a little caffeine would be ok. After all, I did everything "right" the first time and that didn't work out. Still, I had a blighted ovum. So, 3rd time (the charm) I just took everything in moderation.
Ninetales that does sound like a lot. I would be frustrated with it too, especially if she didn't explain what all she was ordering and why. I want to be an informed patient and I want my care provider to know and respect that.
Jamie getting a new car sounds fun! DH and I have said long before we got our BFP that we will need a bigger vehicle when we have two LOs. We are hoping to get a suburban late next summer/fall but that will depend on how the year goes with farming.