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post #21 of 105

Go time!   Or well... sleep time... 

 

Did some shopping today, and by the last store I was in excruciating pain. Came home, ate, and then pretty much tried to go straight to bed. I wasn't successful, but managed to lie in bed until about 11pm. I think I slept from about 11 until 12:30, and then got up to go to the washroom, and made it halfway there and then got a big gush of fluid. 

 

I'm kind of at a loss for what to do now. The cxns are coming about every 4 minutes, and lasting 30-50 seconds, but they are nowhere near painful enough for me to feel like it's time to go in... but then I look at 4 minutes apart, and I'm like hmmm... 

 

So, the plan is to head back to bed, and I guess if I can't fall asleep, then I'll reevaluate. Exciting though!

post #22 of 105
Thread Starter 

whoo hoo keep us updated!

post #23 of 105

Yay!!! Can't wait to hear about it!

 

Our Babies are Coming!!!! This is so exciting!!!!!

post #24 of 105

I took a week off for work for Thanksgiving. Go back on Thurs. Working til due date. Have been feeling really tired and nauseous.

So yesterday after taking DS to school I came home and went back to bed. Got up around lunch time and went shopping. Returned $130 worth of baby gifts that we didn't need. Did a little more holiday shopping. Which involved several stores. Came home to rest. DH comes home and looks around the house and says "I don't understand what you did all day" and kept asking me about it. Annoying. It's like he thinks if I have the whole day off the house should be immaculate and there should be a 4 course dinner waiting. Ugh. Sometimes I do those things but not at 36 weeks! The whole point of my time off IMO is to rest & nest!!

post #25 of 105

JenineJessica - very exciting!! Can't wait for an update! (when of course you have time smile.gif)!

post #26 of 105
The flood of babies has arrived! Soooo excited and sending warm blessings to all you birthing mamas (and anxiously awaiting my own turn!).
post #27 of 105
Thread Starter 

2 1/2 root canals finished today, dental tally so far Four root canals this past week Seven in my mouth total, Crowns start monday! yay yay yay!

post #28 of 105
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Originally Posted by rustydaisies View Post

2 1/2 root canals finished today, dental tally so far Four root canals this past week Seven in my mouth total, Crowns start monday! yay yay yay!



I could not even imagine getting that kind of dental work done while pregnant! You're super woman!

post #29 of 105
Thread Starter 

thanks! haha im definatley just trying to muscle through it, im not super big so im not totally uncomfortable on my back, but still, yeowch

post #30 of 105

Oh wow! It really IS a flood of babies!!

 

We interviewed a family doctor this morning... I wish I had a big red REJECTED stamp to slap on her forehead! The sharps container was in a shelf, a few inches from the floor, AND it was overflowing with 3 or 4 needles poking out the top. I brought it to her attention and she said "I'm not concerned about it." I was like "Really? If someone looks away from their toddler for a few seconds, the kid could stab themselves with a used needle!" She went to show me that once a needle goes (all the way) in it can't come back out, and only then understood what I meant by overflowing.

 

This, after condescendingly saying to my husband "See? Not listening!" when she asked about family history of heart disease under 55, and he responded that his mom died at 61 of heart failure (just a few months ago, so he's obviously still processing it and it's at the forefront of his mind!) It was all I could do to say "See? Not listening!" right back at her when she said "Oh. I see your concern." about the sharps... the next thing she said was "It's not my department, there's nothing I can do about it. You can file a complaint at the front desk on your way out if you like." Really? You can't be bothered to at least place the container on a high shelf or inform the person whose job it is that it needs to be changed out/emptied? When someone, maybe even you could be stabbed with a used needle?

 

Also, there wasn't a sink in the office, which I have never seen before in my life! is that unheard of or have I just been lucky? Screw the front desk, I think I should file a complaint with the college of physicians. 

post #31 of 105

Ouch, no joke - I am a major weenie when it comes to dental pain. yikes.gif

 

@lotus, it feels like I've been super productive this entire pregnancy. Now is the time I get to kick back and relax. I am considering going out now and running some errands... I meant to go earlier today but ended up taking a 3-hour nap, instead. And y'know what, that 3-hour nap felt better than most nights of sleep I've had this week, so I don't even feel guilty for it. thumb.gif

 

My (8-yr-old) puppy is sick, I think. He's turned down two meals now and vomited up the one we encouraged him to eat. (He'll do what we tell him to because he is a good boy... we were so incredulous he'd walked away from his dish without eating we thought somehow, possibly, he'd forgotten about it?! This is unheard of. He never "does not eat." So we said "Cairo! Go eat your dinner!" and he did, obediently. Found the partially-digested kibble on the floor the next morning. Poor puppy. He turned his nose up at breakfast too, so I let him skip it.) We'll try some cooked rice later, maybe, and see how he feels. He's been having accidents in the house which we'd kind of assumed were related to stress about baby changes and/or in response to a friend's (in-heat) dog marking our carpet (don't get me started). But now I'm thinking the poor guy just doesn't feel well... I'll baby him for a day or so but if he doesn't start eating he's going straight to the vet. Not eating is a marker of serious illness in this one! =(

 

And after my appt with the mw today, I have to go back for an u/s tomorrow. I'm 39 weeks but measured only 36 so they want to do an u/s to make sure his size is (approximately) on target and that he has enough amniotic fluid. It's possible he just dropped significantly and is therefore making it harder to measure him, but with me measuring 3 weeks behind they just want to make sure. I'm drinking extra fluids and hoping for good results tomorrow!

 

SO JEALOUS of all the babies coming already (but I'd still like mine to wait until after class on Friday)!! heartbeat.gif

post #32 of 105
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Originally Posted by aeterna View Post


And after my appt with the mw today, I have to go back for an u/s tomorrow. I'm 39 weeks but measured only 36 so they want to do an u/s to make sure his size is (approximately) on target and that he has enough amniotic fluid. It's possible he just dropped significantly and is therefore making it harder to measure him, but with me measuring 3 weeks behind they just want to make sure. I'm drinking extra fluids and hoping for good results tomorrow!

 

SO JEALOUS of all the babies coming already (but I'd still like mine to wait until after class on Friday)!! heartbeat.gif


I got a u/s last week for the same reason. He was just REALLY low in my pelvis and I make small babies (My first was 6lbs 11oz at 41 weeks). Good Luck at your u/s!

 

post #33 of 105

I too was measuring right on target this whole pg, until 34/36 weeks (same time I was experiencing horrible pelvic pain and he dropped lower).  My midwives aren't concerned, but I also read that after 34 weeks fundal measurements aren't very accurate due to this.  Oh, and I have made big babies 8 lbs at 40wks , and 9 lbs 3 oz at 41wks.  Maybe this baby will be a little smaller, I don't know.   Hope all goes well for you!  

post #34 of 105

I measured 40 weeks today, at 38+2... I told the midwife I'm worried about a big baby this time because I looked at a belly pic of the day DD was born and I was smaller then (but about the same weight) She said that palpating is a poor way of estimating, but that her guess is that the baby will be on the high side of the normal range, maybe about 8 1/2 pounds. She said it feels like I have a good amount of water... that's a good thing considering how much the kids poke at the baby! The baby is still quite high, so that could be why I'm measuring ahead, too.

 

A thing that's new since I had my kids... apparently they don't worry about swollen ankles and fingers anymore?! I was worried about high blood pressure (again/still) and that was the latest symptom I noticed this week. She says they've learned it's normal at the end of pregnancy and they actually use it as a sign that the woman's body is getting ready for labour now! Amazing! I feel old with all these 'Back in my day" revelations...

post #35 of 105

We got to the clinic at 8 am and got checked in and everything. We sat there for 15 minutes or so, then a nurse took us back to the room and took my blood pressure. It was high, so she had someone else take it on the other arm. Still high enough for them to be concerned (145/100). One of them said to the other, "No wonder she's here at a high-risk clinic!" That confused me because I hadn't been told before I was high-risk, and I'd told the receptionist that. It occurred to me later that of course they would assume I was; I was coming in on their high-risk day! They said a doctor would be in soon, and left. Well, we waited until 8:45, before a man came in. I told him I thought I was seeing this other doctor. He said they see the high-risk patients today (which didn't make sense for them to schedule me one particular doctor and then her not be there because it was "high-risk day"?). I said I was expecting a female, and he was really nice about it and left, saying he'd find one (or something to that effect).

 

We waited until sometime after 9 for the next doctor. (Fortunately they had internet so I was able to check my email and Facebook from my iPod!) She came in and took my blood pressure again (140/90). She had glanced over my chart, and saw the Thalassemia. I told her the only thing it did was made me a little anemic, and she seemed cool with it, but because of my blood pressure she had to talk to her boss. So off she went, and we waited more. I don't know how long it was until she came back with her boss who talked about how he was concerned with my blood pressure, pre-eclampsia, etc, and that they were going to send me downstairs for an ultrasound and to get my blood drawn. We left the office (talked to the billing lady for a bit) and went downstairs and got checked in at the ultrasound desk. Since they were just fitting me in, we waited. And waited. And waited more. Something like over an hour.

 

Finally we got to go back and get the ultrasound. We got a 3-d pic of her!!

 

35w4d

 

I can't stop looking at the pic!! Makes me even more eager to hold her!! She's DEFINITELY got Scottie's (my husband's) nose! She didn't like the doppler or ultrasound. The tech said she's about 5lb 4oz, and measuring right on target. (Fundal height was 33cm, but she's engaged, head-down, facing to my right, just as I thought. No internal exam, which was nice...but I still don't know who "my" dr is. :-/ )

 

After the ultrasound, we went down to the lab. The lady was nice enough (though she didn't look fully awake), but BOY was her blood draw painful. I mean, it felt like someone just jabbing a needle into my arm. Then every time she switched out tubes, I actually had to pull my arm back...even though she was trying to be careful and using her fingers for leverage on the needle-tube-part, when she pushed the tube into place it jabbed me. Then she took the rubber tie off my arm, and when she twisted her body to toss it onto the table, JAB went the needle again. OUCH. (The other two times I've had my blood drawn were practically painless. One was, the other was barely anything.)

 

Anyway, after that we were able to leave. Finally. It was about noon...we had been there since 8 am. Plus I didn't sleep well at all so I was really tired. We came home, had some food, messed around online, then watched "Oh Brother, Where Art Thou" (I still have no idea what the title has to do with the movie, but it was a fun movie). Then Scottie watched Megamind while I napped with my head on his lap. ♥

 

Oh yes, and I'm going back in tomorrow morning for a blood pressure check...

 

(I also posted this on my blog with a recap of my terrible experiences trying to find a provider. lol)

post #36 of 105

Avery, so glad to read that you have been seen and will continue to get care. Your DD is precious!

post #37 of 105

Thanks!! I SOO can't wait to hold her!! (I'm sort of hoping they will make me have her early now LOL except I DON'T want a c-section!!)

post #38 of 105

Aww AveryLamb...I hope it works out this time! that's cool that they were able to fit you in, even if it sounds like they made a mistake with the scheduling...

 

Mummoth- what an awful experience! I kid I used to baby-sit got stuck as a toddler with a sharp that was left on the floor of a doctor's office. Thankfully he was "ok" as in he didn't contract anything, but, the risk was certainly there and aside from getting the painful stick then he had to get his blood drawn a whole bunch of times afterwards to make sure he didn't contract anything...its a very real risk and it blows my mind your doctor wasn't more concerned!

 

Today was my first day back in the office in 6 days...was nice to get back in the routine, but, I kinda missed just hanging out with my babies...oh well, soon enough.

 

DH supposedly talked to my MIL who is coming over Christmas and explained that she needs to help me and if she wants to go out she can take the keys and drive herself because I won't be doing anything but staying home with the kids (I may want to do things, but, she doesn't need to have that expectation), and also that her sister (coming with her totally uninvited) cannot cause drama (she is the queen of drama and "woah is me syndrome" - which is the one thing I CANNOT deal with) either way hopefully the conversation will help, but, I have been known to snap at my MIL before when she gets opinionated...I try not too, but, sometimes enough is enough lol.

 

Oh, and then I just got an automated reminder call for my appointment Thursday, it turns out it is with the ONLY provider that I really do not like (I had not seen her since pregnant with DS1 and only saw her like once so I didn't remember her really) but I had her last week and I am thinking I will try and change my appointment for Thursday to ANYONE else, and the same thing with my following one if it is with her...my mom asked what I will do if she is on call when I go into labor...I figure I will time my arrival with her departure if that works out, my second choice will be to ask for OB care instead of CNM care and my last choice will be to simply request her stay out of the room as much as possible and refuse exams as much as possible. Of course, the last time I butted heads with a midwife I ended up loving her during labor, but, I really do not think that will be the case with this one. ARGH. God help her if she tries to touch me while I'm in labor that's all I have to say lol.

post #39 of 105
So I'm here at the clinic...got my blood pressure taken...and I'm being admitted to the hospital to monitor it. x( dunno how long I'll be there...
 
I'm depressed.
post #40 of 105

Thinking of you Avery. Glad you got into the clinic. How exciting to see your baby girl! So sweet!

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