By back,I mean back here visiting this forum...... A while back,I posted some questions about adoption. Well, it's been about 2 years since I started thinking about adopting,and I am finally ready to move forward. I am so SCARED. I forced myself to call the social worker today (state) and set up an appt. for a house visit.
She said it was checking for general safety,etc,and to ask us what our goals are. I have an 18 yr. old,and a 12 yr. old too. Will she question the kids? or just me and DH? How will I ever clean my house that well? what if my garage and back basement are big old storage mess?(they are) what if my yappy dog won't settle down? (she always does,in time)
Please help me with some calming advice!!!!! I want to do this so much,but this is terrifying. We are seeking to adopt from the state system,not foster. Which means nothing will move that fast for us,I'm sure,and I'm ok with that too. help a crazy mama move forward please!