I would love to want it more. I would love to get back to where we were before getting pg with Finn - couple times a week, nothing too crazy, lots of fun. I know we'll get back there once I'm not so tired and things settle down. But DH thinks its the end of the world!
A date would be awesome. I'm hoping in the next month, we can get MIL to babysit both kids for us. I think for a few hours midday it would be fine, especially on a weekend if my FIL and BIL are also there. I would love dinner and a movie. I want to feel HUMAN again.
I love my kids, they are the best. But I'm finding that having two littles leaves me with very little to enjoy outside of them. I still have my own interests and wants and needs, but I never really get to explore them. So. A "date night" with DH would be great.
Oooh, I could never bf while dtd. I get a little squicked. Too much "use" of my body and not enough personal enjoyment, lol.
I've been doing my kegels till I'm blue in the face at night (actually just while I'm laying down falling asleep) and while I do feel a difference, I think it's going to take more time. Mine are bladder and rectal, luckily my cervix is where it's supposed to be. Nothing is painful, it's just sometimes uncomfortable. And nothing is "in the way" if we DTD, but I think I"m just more aware that something is still off down there, and it makes me clam up. I just don't want to "visit the issue" with DH.
I set my clothesline up in the basement. Do you have some place to put it inside?