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Originally Posted by
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How did you do that?
Here's what I wrote when my son was 14 months. So you know, at 19 months he would go to the bathroom whenever we suggested it, if he had to go. At 25 months he told us every time he had to pee, and he went. By 27 months he was refusing to pee anywhere except his pants. However, he was totally potty trained by 30 months.
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It is best to start EC before 4 months, though there are tricks to starting later.
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The EC process:Â
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1. Make the cueing sound (typically "pssss") whenever your baby pees or poops. They quickly associate the sound with the action.Â
2. Watch your baby for any signs they need to go. Not all babies will give cues. Sometimes you have to go by intuition. In our case, we've gone by timing. We've been at this for over a year and only timing has been successful for us. (Although yesterday, 5 days shy of 14 months, he actually used the hand signal 4 times to indicate he had to pee or poop! Today hasn't been so good, though. Typical up and downs of toddler learning.)Â
3. If you think your baby has to go, take them to the potty place and make the cueing sound. The potty place could be a bowl, an infant potty, the toilet, or the backyard flowers. If they have to go, they will. If it's not time, you try again later.Â
4. Relax. Don't plan on 100% success. This is not about "potty training." This is about taking care of your infant's needs in a healthful, economical, environmentally friendly way while you are also teaching them about their bodies.Â
One of the chief criticisms of this technique is that the parents do all the work. Of course they do. These are babies. They are incapable of taking off clothing, undoing diapers, wiping themselves, etc. Parents do all the work in standard American potty training. But they do it for a lot longer than people who EC. My son isn't even 14 months and he signed to me that he needed to poop. He went in the toilet and I used 1 wipe to clean him up. Yes, I did all the work, but he's the one who initiated it. I'd say he will be totally independent years before most of his peers. Also, he's never had a diaper rash and I doubt if he'll ever get one.Â
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Here are some good resources:
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http://www.diaperfreebaby.org/
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http://www.amazon.com/Infant-Potty-Training-Primeval-Adapted/dp/1888580305/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1324015373&sr=8-1
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http://www.amazon.com/Potty-Whispering-Gentle-Infant-Training/dp/B000NJWANI/ref=pd_sim_b_5