Girls names are fairly easy for me. I either want Margarita or Valentina, though we'd most likely go with Margarita because my mother in-law would probably have a cow if we didn't.
That was her favourite grandmother's name and she really, really wishes we'd use it. I like the name myself, so I think we'd go with that. And she'd go by Rita, which I like quite a bit. My husband leans more towards names like Mila or Mira (pronounced Mee-la or Mee-ra). But he's more open with girls names. I like names like Anastasiya (which my daughter LOVES), but it's WAY too common in Russia and there is a huge chance that she'd end up being 1 of 4 or 5 in her class with the name.
Now boys names on the other hand.... we're a bit at odds on those. And I'm really stuck on ones that would be good for a son and not just a nice name for someone else, if you know what I mean? He's more into ethnic Russian/Slavic names like Vladimir, Vladislav, Lubomir, etc. I'm not a big fan of most of those. I lean more towards Greek or Latin based names like Andrei, Nikolai, Nikodim, Roman, etc. We both do like Matvei and Luka though and a lot of our family likes both of those names. We also like Seraphim, but I'm not a fan of the nickname that often goes with it: Fima (pronounced "Feema").
The other thing to keep in mind is that all of our children will have the same middle names... boys will be Semyonovich and girls Semyonovna. So I have to make sure the first and middle go well together, because most often that is how they will be addressed: not by first and last as much as by first and middle, especially in professional relationships as adults. Another option to consider is the boys name, because it will be his children's middle name in the future and I don't want it to be a huge challenge to name his children will a difficult patronymic, which already axed a few names from our list that we were considering.
So, it'd go: Luka Semyonovich or Matvei Semyonovich...
Normally I'm obsessed with baby names. When I wasn't pregnant I'd sit there and pick out names I like and obsess and now I'm actually avoiding it because I find it so overwhelming! I know I won't be able to 100% pick a name before the baby is born, because I'd want to look at it and pick, but it'd be nice to feel 100% sure about a few names! It's such a permanent thing...
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