You obviously have no idea what you're talking about. How is it possible I am NOTHING to the children involved? Are you just completely clueless or that dumb? They are with me (and my BF) 50% of their lives. I give them baths, I clean their clothes, I cook their meals, I keep the house they live in 50% of the time clean, I make them soup when they are sick, I help put them to bed, I help educate them when they ask questions about things they are curious about, etc...Saying I am nothing to them isn't mean, it's downright moronic. You have no idea what you're talking about either as yout reading comprehension skills are obviously lacking. I never said she shouldn't take them on vacation. I said we should get this kids the two days of winter break she is NOT going on vacation. She does NOT have a full time job, so again, you have no clue what you're talking about. The schedule was written based on when the KIDS usually wake and sleep. I could give a crap if the ex gets up at 4am. That's her problem.
If you want my advice, learn some reading comprehension skills before you get diarrhea of the mouth (or keyboard) again and spew more of your crap.
ok im sorry hun im not trying to be mean or sound like i am but what is this "us" and "we" crap? they are not your children you are just the girlfriend you are nothing to the children involved. i suggest you leave the disputing custody between your boyfriend and his ex. and so what if she is taking them on vacation? dont you think the children deserve a nice vacation? instead of complaining that you will have no time with them while they are on vacation why dont you be happy for them that they are spending some nice quality time having fun on a nice vacation with their mother? and how is the ex winning anything? lets see, the children are old enough to be in school so there goes 8 hours of her day without them, they are with thier dad for an hour there is 9 hours a day she is losing time with them, lets see she probably has a full time job too, right there is munus more time with them... and just wondering how did you write a detailed schedule of when each parent wakes and sleeps? you dont know what time she gets up and goes to bed. she could get up at 4 am and not even get to bed till late getting the childrens things around for school and to be with you and their father. i think you need to cut the ex some slack and respect her for everything she is doing for the kids. you sound like an immature little girl. if you want my advice.. get out of the relationship because you arent mature enough to have a serious relationship. and stop trying to get in between the custody stuff, its really none of your business..
like i said before i am not trying to be mean or make anyone mad i am just expressing my opinion