So I have not really been too informed on circ, totally my fault. When I was pregnant with ds I made the desicion to not have him circed, with a lot of "opinions" from the peanut gallery, mostly mainstream friends. Well I made a rash desicion in the hospital to go ahead with it, mostlywith prodding from dp and the hospital staff..... HUGE F'ING mistake. They cut his testicles and he was so bruised and it was ALL my fault He had issues healing after and it was terrible, I felt like such a failure to him. Well fast fwd almost 4 years later and he is not circumcised......yes I know I sound like a freak, but I do not know what they did, but they didn't get the foreskin. So now I put him threw all that and now dp is saying we need to get it re-done! WTF?!?!? That is NOT going to happen, he will not be having major surgery that is completely unnessecary. So I am asking for some resources for myself and to share with DP... HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!