I am begining to go a little crazy with people asking me "when are you going to have #2?" type questions. Does anyone else have problems with that?
It seems like every day at least one person askes me... people I dont know well, my parents friends, co workers, strangers...absolutly everyone and I find it very very rude.
I had a family friend (a man) explain to me that I need to think ahead, cause even if I got pregnant now DS would be 9 months older by the time the new baby came, so he'd be almost 2 1/2 not 18 months ...NO SHIT, glad you cleared that up for me!!!
What if we were having trouble getting pregnant, what if I had just lost a baby or what if I was newly pregnant and not ready to share (none of these situations are true but they could be)...
We are planning on TTC in the near future but I dont want to explain to everyone.."well we are gonna try starting next month"...and then have everyone just waiting for an announcment. Its too personal
I'm just wondering if others have the same experience and frustration?
Any good comebacks that are not too rude?
I usualy say something like...when ds can put his own shoes on or he's enough work for me right now
I just want to tell them its NONE of your f***ing buisness!!! But thats not always possible :)