Teresa - he had a second semen analysis 3 months later and we say a huge improvement. He has been on it ever since, and that stuff is really expensive - $75 for a three month supply of fertilaid, and COQ10 is really expensive too (at least most brands are). Glad you and your DH are back on track, but sorry about the fight with your friend.
AFM - Sorry for no personals. There are so many people on this thread and it moves so fast as soon as I go to reply I have forgotten everything. I am still reading along and cheering you on though.