We have threads for most everything else, so let's give us second time moms a thread too!
I feel like a LOT will change in my life having a second child, especially with a young (she'll be just over 2) daughter. Until now, she's gotten nearly all of my attention. I've tried to make sure that she's fine with independent playing too, and she is for the most part, but that doesn't meant that she's used to her parents not giving her attention exactly when she wants it! Also, she LOVES babies now, but what if having one 24/7 makes her change her mind?
The other thing we've been working on is Cecilia spending more time with Papa. I would imagine because I am a SAHM, she's been very a Mama-only girl. There was a time when she'd pitch a fit if Papa even looked at her funny. At this point, she loves spending time with him if she knows I'm not around, but still prefers me when I am there-- unless it's tower building time! Then it's all about Papa!