Allison: I'm sorry it's taking so long :( DD took us 7 tries (4 pregnancies...but only one that stuck) and this pregnancy took us 6 tries (again, 4 pregnancies...and hopefully this one is sticky). I can't remember, have you ever had any testing done? Basic stuff like blood work, etc? Are you moving out to the burbs?
We don't tell many people we are actively ttc. If people ask us if we're going to have another child we say "we'd love to!" but other than that we don't say much. When we were ttc DD pretty much no one outside of our direct circle of friends knew so it was a shock to a lot of people when we announced the pregnancy at 13 weeks!