Welcome dandylez! Funny, just before checkin in on the thread I heard news of my sister-in-law giving birth to a baby girl in Toronto, who was conceived via insemination with donor sperm. They're also a lesbian couple, a bit older than you and your partner so I'm hoping that this is some kind of positive sign for you! Anyway, great to have you join the group and fingers crossed your stay here is short :)
Dana - Oh man, I'm sorry to hear that. You're right though, it will happen when it's meant to and we're all here rooting for you!
AFM - I tested this morning which looked like a total BFN at first, but when I looked at it I thought I saw the squintiest of lines. I showed it to my husband he *thinks* he could see something (and he's definitely not one to say so unless he's super sure), but I'm not sure if it was an evap. That was this morning, then since this afternoon I've been getting some blood tinged cm so I'm thinking AF is just about to show up.