a man like your SON makes you want to throw up? oh what a coincidence! A mom like you makes ME want to throw up!
Hey guess what! Some 2 year olds move slowly and want to watch the action! My kid does that. She is plenty active but with new people and new situations, she wants to just sit back and watch for awhile. It has nothing to do with being a GIRL you sexist half brain. It has everything to do with her coming to an age where she understands that social situations require a certain behavior and she wants to be sure she knows it by watching others first.
Tons of people, men and women, aren't very active. and tons of people, men and women, are. Again sexist lady, it has nothing to do with whether they are men or women but what their interests are. I can't stand sports. My husband is wholly uninterested in being any more active than required for his job. It doesn't mean any of us are LAZY.. we still get everything done that needs to be done. We are still healthy. We are also HAPPY.
Your kid is only 2 and you are already yelling at him about being lazy. You are already nagging and fighting with him and getting mad when his pace isn't the same as yours. When he hits those teenage rebellious years and never wants to be around you and says he doesn't like you? Remember how you were calling him a LAZY ASS when he was only TWO and already telling him he's acting like a girl... and ask yourself if it's just teenage rebellion or if you brought it on your damn self.
He's two. He needs a loving supporting home, unconditionally. He doesn't need to be told he's lazy and acting too much like a girl. He needs you to love him and find ways to give him an environment he needs. If he won't ride his trike around the block, what about in the drive way? what about playing in the yard? Maybe he'd do better in a gymnastics class for exercise. figure out what he needs rather than treating him like scum for not fitting into what YOU want.