DS just turned 2 and has been in underpants for all waking hours for the last 2 months. I give him plenty of reminders to go, but I've realized that over the last couple weeks he doesn't pee in the potty on his own initiative. He used to, but now, unless I put him on the potty myself to try he'll just go in his pants. So if *I'm* on top of things we can go days without an accident, but I want *him* to tell us when he needs to go.
Every time he wets his pants we put him on the potty, talk calmly about what he is *supposed* to do, and then go get him clean clothes. He'll tell us that he is supposed to pee on the potty and not in his underpants, but he won't actually do it on his own. I don't know what else to do to help him.