Honestly I don't know if I will be a lot of help, but I will share a bit of what we have done. And congrats on your new baby 
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At first I was not going to vaccinate and to be honest I was making the decison quite blindly. Then at a week old my son got RSV, of course this sent me into a panick. Two trips to the ER later he was fine, and now that I know more about RSV his was really mild. This experience sent me into a furry of activity, reading a lot on MDC and reading vaccine books. I still think it is difficult to find truly unbiased information.
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So I suppose after many, many hours of research, and way too much time spent worrying...I suppose we are still on the fence! My little man just turned one year and we have not done ny shots, and I suppose I am not sure I will.
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This is how I made my decison:
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DTap-IPV-Hib: Off the bat, there was no way I personally would allow a five in one shot. It freaks me out, too many toxins at once. Plus in the natural world, there is no way a baby would come into contact with all 5 of these diseases at once. The pertussis component really scared me. I was open to tetnus and diptheria and considering I could not get those without the pertussis I decided to not go ahead with this one. Also, pertussis is mainly a risk for those under 6 months. If you think about it your child needs three shots to be fully protected and when will that happen? Well, at six months! So she won't even be protected until the highest risk is over.
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Polio - I have read that they are considering removing this from the schedule, so I figured we could wait on this.
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Hib - ok I will not lie, for me this one was really hard. I have shed many a tear of worry. This was my drs pet vaccine, and she freaked me out! Anything to do with meningitis scares me to death, and I suppose it is mainly because it can happen so fast and the only treatment is antibiotics. Yes I still worry about it. I guess what has kept me holding off is the fact that if I can hold off till 15 months then he only needs one. I do have serotype replacement concerns with this one. There is also a lot of info about BF inhibiting Hib infections.This one can be seperated and given on its own.
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Prevnar - Yes equally freaked out about waiting on this one too. Again, meningitis scares the living crap out of me! Again, I have read that BF inhibits infection. I have also read that it is effective but we will need to keep adding new strains, this one has 13, the old one had 7. Again serptype replacement concerns with this one.
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For me with both Hib and Prevnar I am concerned about messing with his immune system and all these bacteria are normally in our bodies. Some ladies on this board will tell you that vaxing for bacterial infections is ridiculous, to be honest I think its because of what I said above. Can anyone help us with this?
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All you can do is your research, and I suppose (which I always hated hearing) follow your instinct. And as others will agree, if you are unsure, wait, you cannot unvax.
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I read:
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The Vaccine Book - Dr. Sears
Vaccine Safety Manuel - Neil Z.Miler
What Your Doctor May Not Tell You About Childhood Vaccinations - Stephanie Cave
Vaccinations - Aviva Romm
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And lots of links found on here, I also compared different provincial, country immunization schedules. Did you know that if you were here in Alberta you would also be getting Men-C at 2, 4 and 12 months!? Which I am assuming is the type of meningitis your husband contracted. Why should I get it here, and you are safe from it where you are?
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And this may be good for you too, because you are in Canada. Katia Bailetti http://www.doctormom.me/Â is a naturopath in Toronto and she specializes in vaccines. She has resources you can purchase that has Canadian info in it, which is sometimes hard to find.
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Anyways hope that helps a little bit!! I also noticed in your sig that your husband is a medic. Is he a doctor? What are his thoughts? I saw that you said he supports you loosely, would love to know what he thinks about all this. Also saw you are a doula, that is awesome, I LOVED my doula, although she barely made it in time! I thought she was an awesome support, kudos to you for the support you are, I think every lady should have a doula!
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And to other posters, please fix info if I have stated things that are wrong. All this is from memory and I hope I got it all right!