I've started feeling the rage that so many of you and others have described. I did find a solution.. I can only nurse DD early in the morning in bed, when I'm half asleep, and when my DD1 is not present and I can not hear her. For some reason, hearing fiddling with toys, playing, humming, singing, talking, whatever just drives me up the wall when nursing.
So.. we're nursing like twice per day now.. once in the morning, once in the evenings. It's not too bad. I told her that "nursies is all gone", that she finished it (I have very little milk), and that it's empty for now. She knows it comes back in the morning, and she mostly comfort nurses before bed in the evening.. We bought her a "Special Cup" (just a pink and purple thermos from target ) and I told her that when nursies is gone during the day, she can use it for milk and for water. Since it keeps things cold for 10 hours, I'm content with filling it up with milk and letting her sip at it throughout the day. Maybe not the best idea in the world health or dental wise, but yk.... my poor boobs can't take it!
I love nursing her so much and can't imagine cutting her off completely. I really hope she's willing to tandem nurse.. of course I say that now