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post #1 of 13
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Hello everyone,

I am sorry that is has taken me so long to get to this, but I wanted to let you all know that I lost my baby several weeks ago, but the OB didn't believe me, so I had to wait until I got sick again (yes, I've been through this exact same thing before between my 2 boys). I did get very, very sick, went back in, got an admission from the OB that I had indeed lost a baby, got the antibiotic, and started to get better. I started bleeding a few days later, but began nearly hemorraging within 24 hours. It took high doses of progesterone to get it under control. I passed everything and bled for 12 days.

I apologize for seeming to fall off the face of the earth like that, but I had to take the time to process all of that dr drama again, as well as losing the baby and being extremely sick. I literally could not emotionally handle logging back on here until now.

May you all be blessed in your pregnancies, labors and deliveries, and especially above all with your precious new babies.
post #2 of 13

I am so, so sorry for your loss. Wishing for healing for you and hoping for brighter days ahead.

post #3 of 13

I am so sorry greensad.gif

post #4 of 13

(((Hugs))) JoyFamMama


I lost my LO Friday (well, it didn't develop past 8w), and that pain is fresh here, too. If you feel like hanging out in a "safe" place, the Pregnancy and Birth Loss boards have been helpful for me.


I'm so angry at your doctor--it's such a painful time anyway, and to have to deal with that would be more than overwhelming for anyone. I hope you recover fully physically and as much as you can mentally.



post #5 of 13

I'm so sorry to hear that, JoyFamMama. It's never easy to lose a baby, but dang, your doctor sure made it harder. So sorry you're having to go through this. *hugs*

post #6 of 13

JoyFamMama, I am so sorry for your loss. And that doctor making it worse for you! And you, too, stegenrae; i am sorry for your loss, which i hadn't read about yet. I can't tell you ladies how sorry I am to hear of these losses. I am so sorry you are having to go through this. I hope you will find comfort and be healed and receive great blessings and have good luck.  We will miss you.

post #7 of 13

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

post #8 of 13

So sorry to both of you mamas... 

post #9 of 13

I am so sorry to hear this.  I'll be thinking about you, and am very sorry you're going through so much right now.  Hugs.

post #10 of 13

I'm so very sorry. How traumatic and devastating. I wish you healing and strength and comfort and peace. 

post #11 of 13

So sorry to read this.  I wish you well as you heal. hug2.gif

post #12 of 13

I'm so very sorry for your loss, and that the doctor made it even harder for you.  I hope you can find a new care provider as well as peace and healing.

post #13 of 13

I am so sorry for your loss, JoyfamMama. My heart is breaking imagining you having to go through that. It's just terrible.

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