Hello everyone and thank you for your responses! Â My DH does teach at a NATO American school in Belgium. Â I have posted about the school in other threads because I was having problems with my DD getting services she needs (she has been "tested" by the school and found to have processing speed issues, memory issues, and a suspected case of ADD inattentive type). Â The school has a population that tends to test very high on standardized testing and many in gifted education. Â If my DS was to go into the gifted classroom, he'd be in there with children of all ages. . .many labeled twice exceptional (asperger's/autism and gifted) and the class would have around 20 children at one time. Â My DH says the teacher is great at challenging the children and helping them work together on different projects. Â She's also good at helping the children take risks that a lot of gifted children have trouble with. Â I'm honestly not sure what specific tests would be given to my DS, but I'm pretty sure he'd qualify no matter what the testing. Â There are no other children in the class his age, he'd be the youngest.
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As far as the type of homeschooling we do. . .we're pretty relaxed, eclectic homeschoolers and I tend to be more of an unschooling mom with my DS (not with my DD because of her memory issues). Â He sets the tone for whatever "schooling" I do with him at home. Â He might do a bit of math, play the piano and work on writing his own songs, read, write comics, or do art projects. Â We do belong to a homeschooling group and meet with them once a week. Â My DS is also in Cub Scouts and takes piano lessons. Â He really enjoys being around other kids, but often finds kids his own age immature and he once asked me if I was sure of his age because he really didn't think he was the same age as the other kids who were 6/7.
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The school does get funding based on enrollment. Â Both my children are enrolled in the school as non-attending students (so they can participate in after school clubs and so my DD can get special education services when needed), so the school gets money for them whether they attend or not. Â However, they do take the Terra Nova (starting in 3rd grade) and this testing helps with the school's status. Â We wouldn't have to worry about this testing though, since neither my DD nor my DS would be taking it. Â
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About the reading test 4 times a year, it's the normal schedule for children at the school to take the test. Â It's a short reading test. . .the kids read several passages and answer questions about them. Â It has been nice to see how my DD has improved since being taken out of the school, DH does it with my DS more for fun.
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I've talked with my DS about attending the gifted class. Â He is curious about it. Â Sometimes I do feel it's a "slippery slope" for us. . .I don't want him to get into a "school" mindset. Â I'm also concerned about driving him there twice a week when we aren't near the school on those two days and how that will affect schooling with my DD. . .it's a 20 minute drive and it will really cut into our schedule. Â I know that might sound selfish, but I really value my time at home with the children.